Domestic violence- please reach out and get help

in #life7 years ago

Hi everyone, today there are no pictures but words. I was attacked last night by a family members husband. He was intimidating my 11 year old daughter accusing her of something she had not done. My daughter is honest, soft hearted and loving. He did it infront of me and tried to intimidate me. I tried to record his abusive behaviour but he twisted my hand back hurting my wrist. He took my phone. As I tried to retrieve it, he tried to break my arm, I felt a crunch. I managed to get it eventually. I was so scared, shaking...,This resulted in that family member wanting a divorce. My child is distraught by his behaviour. Im as you can imagine, terrified and in pain but kept my child safe. I will be taking legal action.
All wanted is for people to understand one of the many forms of abuse. Domestic violence is increasing and many turning a blind eye. Even though he opologised to my daughter, no sorry will fix the damage caused. Please get help, life is too short. I hope my honesty, shows awareness and gives you strength in whichever suffering you face. Stay safe and only keep kind/loving people in your life.

Thank you for your time.
Below are Uk links of domestic violence, if you need others, I will provide you with others.

Respect yourself and allow yourself to be loved, you are worth every breath.

https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/crime-info/types-crime/domestic-abuse

https://www.nhs.uk/livewell/abuse/pages/domestic-violence-help.aspx

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This is really sad...also its disgusting to see a man resorting to physical violence with a lady! I hope he pays heavily for his mistakes

Thank you, he will but at the moment. I just want him to keep away. I just want some peace for me and my daughter. Thank you for your supporting words.

This is awful I will call you in a second dils : (

Aquí en venezuela se ve a diario. pero hay instituciones que protegen a la mujer. De hecho hasta canales de televisión que animan a las mujeres a denunciar al agresor

Thats good, people should stand up to it and name and shame them. They dont do that here, perpetrators are not put on TV. Violence shouldn't happen but it does.

so sad hope you get a solutions for this situation

Thank you for your kind words, at the moment Im at home safe with my daughter. I hope it helps others in some way.

hope so dear it's 2018 and we still live with people who behave like animals hope you will be okkay witth your daughter

I know its shocking, its really tough to find good people and its shouldnt be. Thank you, she is in alittle shock, but she will be okay. Thank you so much for your comments.

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I'm so sorry that you experienced this. I lived and loved a man who abused me for 8+ years so domestic violence hits home for me. I pray that you are able to find the support you need to cope with this experience. Best wishes.