It is not so rare in the life of such a paradox: a couple that quarrels often and emotionally, is not going to divorce, and a couple who never showed their differences in public suddenly announces their rupture. What is the reason for this behavior? Perhaps these people successfully concealed their emotional tension from others and simply played the role of an exemplary family?
Most likely, it is not so. They were kept in circulation, attentive and attentive to each other. What caused the gap? It can be several factors, and one of which may well become boredom. When a couple is together for a long time, it is difficult to find the true reasons that they are held side by side - love or habit. That is why you should pay attention to the signs that become the harbingers of separation.
Boredom
One can say with absolute certainty that it is based on repressed or unconscious feelings, namely disappointment, anger or sadness. Long relationships lead to gradual easing of passion, and the union, previously emotionally saturated, suddenly becomes uninteresting and bleak. Spouses begin to feel that suddenly the joy has gone, and therefore the joint pastime becomes painful.
Any common cause already causes boredom, and there are no common interests, except domestic problems, anymore. Something between the spouses happened, and they did not notice, so insignificant it seemed.