A foundation for most peoples excuses are born from their upbringing. Growing up we gain influence from our parents, family, friends, the community, and school that won’t support us in achieving our dreams and goals as adults. We all got irrelevant, mixed or false messages messages growing up but that should never be an excuse now.
You are responsible for creating wealth and success with the life you truly want and deserve no matter your past. You are responsible for designing your future. There are millions of excuses you can make but you alone are in the front seat at the wheel and in control of your life now.
Believe in the possibility, believe in others to support you now even if you don’t believe in yourself at this stage. Even with all your past troubles, challenges and mistakes, you are the only solution to all of that. You can blame your kids, a divorce, the economy, the police, the government, accidents, their age for the reason they are where they are now.
Of course there are challenges in life, health and finances but in the end the excuses will never change your situation because only you can decide and commit to true and long lasting change.
You’re the one who’s really in control of your own life with your own choices right now.
You’ll learn that some external influences are beyond your control so don’t focus on the unwinnable battle and go for your advantage over others.
Can you self-evaluate now and identify which excuses you are using from the past?
Write down every excuse you have ever used for your life.
Everything, whatever you can think of big or small - write them down.
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Great advice, I have choices at anytime and I will become aware of any excuses, thank you.
Exactly, awareness is the key!
Writing down things, especially the visions and goals, is very powerful technique. Thank you @dominikboecker !
That's great, thanks for your feedback.
Good information. I live by lists.