Your picture is quite accurate, but what you describes are symptoms... the bottom line is that materialism has always used sex as a weapon, materialism makes you think of possessing others. This is a philosophical and spiritual issue above all
Materialism is a scourge killing all human rapports, and without considering this, psychology will remain vain and futile. It is all about metaphysics in the end.
My blog explains the big picture
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