Though i'm not married yet but i have learned a lot from this marriage
article which i red from happilyeverafterlove.com and will definitely apply
These principles when i got married. This article talks about advice on
marriage and it contains some important tips which i think readers might
be interested to know about. Let's us look at what really this article talks
about. Below are the advises given.
GO ON DATE NIGHTS
Just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop dating
each other,make the time to have fun, create memories, connect, ask
open-ended questions, dream together and never stop pursuing each
other.
COMMUNICATE OFTEN
Your spouse is not a mind reader. Constant communication keeps you
on the same page and sets the right expectations of each other. Set aside
at least 10 minutes a day to talk to each other about life.
APOLOGIZE
You've made a mistake and now it's time to own it and apologize to your
spouse. Being right is not as important as being together. Taking
responsibility for the pain you've caused will create a trusting
environment.
ASSUME THE BEST
Don't assume you already know what your spouse is going to say and
how he/she will respond. Happily married couples focus on the positive
qualities and always assume the best of each other.
CHOOSE LOVE
Feelings come and go but true love is a choice. Everyday do something
that will move you closer to your spouse and find new ways to love
him/her by being intentional with showing small act of kindness.
FIND A WIN-WIN SOLUTION
Stop spending your time fighting about who is wrong and who is right.
Rather, take the time and find win-win solution that work for both of you.
Sure there is option A and B, but there is also option C-Z to think about.
KISS OFTEN
Kissing is not only a great option for foreplay but it also produces the
#love hormone Oxytocin. This hormone creates an environment for
connection, trust, respect, safety and love.
FORGIVE ALWAYS
Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. And because your spouse isn't
perfect, you will have to choose to forgive him/her so that you are not
bitter and filled with resentment. Forgiveness is the greatest habit you
can learn for your marriage.
This is the conclusion of the article and i believe that you too have learn
a lot of lessons from this article.
Therefore comments and contributions from you are cordially accepted
so please don't hesitate to drop them in the comment box.
Thanks for your time and keep visiting this blog.
Until we meet again, bye for now...
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Great article!! I really admire your opening line which says and I quote "Though i'm not married yet but i have learned a lot from this marriage
article". We don't have to wait to get married before we start learning how a couple should behave. There's no difference between a marriage and a relationship (Dating ). The fear of marriage comes in once you start seeing marriage as different from dating. It is not. The best way to enjoy marriage, is doing those things you both were doing while you were dating. Don't let it stop. Don't let the worries of children and other cares take that away from you both. With these mindsets and zeal, marriage will be sweet.
Your contribution is so much worth it. @mascotogbe.
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I admire your kind words. @w4c.
My wife and I will be celebrating our 10 year anniversary in a couple months and I learned a lot from this!!
Aww!!! I'm so happy for both of you. Happy marriage anniversary. @ray4u.
Will surely use these tips in my married life, tanx @emmanuelacheamp
You're welcome. @johnsonkoranteng.
I will come for your advice when the time is due for my marriage
Hahaaa!!! My doors are always opened. @bigssam.
Lovely principles....I have learnt how to make my marriage a success and looking forward to apply them when the time comes.
Thanks for making me proud. @evangehlynn.
You welcome dear.
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