Upvoted because this is by far the best post you've ever written!
Like what the song said "Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all!" and it is - and is the very gateway to being able to truly love another person.
I raise my glass to you on that!
On : "There is absolutely nothing wrong with me." How about restate that into something positive - I am enough. I am okay. I accept myself completely instead of using the "not". I've been taught to use positive self affirmations because the human brain has a tendency to pick up the negatives. Just sharing...