Kinda moody today so i decided to do a little rant.
In the past few days i have actually learnt a lot of things from a lot of happenings. I have been heart broken by people who i call friends. People who i have helped when they were down. People who i have traded my happiness for theirs. People who i have gone out of my comfort zones for.
Most of these people have made me realise that loving someone is not a guarantee that you will be loved in return. I am someone that is very emotional and little things get to me so i feel kind of bothered when i see these stuffs. I be like wtf. I don't just understand. Why should you bite the finger that fed you or why should you trade evil for good. Thats just so freaking unfair.
This post was not made to seek sympathy or make people pity and love me or something. I am making this post to remind myself not to put my hopes on anybody. Like a partner of yours just waking up one day and calling off the relationship. Like tf. Relationships are not meant to be a bed of roses. Shit happens and you should settle. Especially when you think the person cares. Well that is not related to this post, twas just an example.
Anything i do for someone is done at my own risk and it is not certain that it will be reciprocated. Ill continue to love and care for family and friends but will just have to do it without harming myself or depriving me of my happiness.
As for me nobody knows how to love you. Only you can love you. And if you dont love yourself, nobody else will love you for you.
Hey! That's life for you bro ,you already said it all, you have to be self-love because if you don't love yourself, nobody will love you for you.
I think that's why we are called human, because our attitudes are tend to change.
Human beings don't have stable attitude or character that is why you see someone who react well yesterday and today he or she will be a different person.
But that's life and we have to move on. Wish you well and happiness @ewuoso
Thanks for the well wishes. Above all, we deserve happiness.
You are welcome, you should Know also that happiness comes within when we love and believe in our self,which is the best. Because if we depend on someone to give us joy or happiness, that person may fail as long as he or she is human
Life for you bro
Anytime you fall
Stand up dust your body and move on
Dust your body and move on. Thats life for yhu
expectation is the bedrock of disappointment, never put your hope, expectation on man and never love conditionally because if you do you will have yourself to blame at last.@ewuoso, boss I can understand your feelings, but I want you to know that the
just be yourself
It's all about you oh
"If you don't make yourself happy, who will?"
Fact....
Nobody can love you like you will....you.
Stop trying to seek love elsewhere when you have not completely and truthfully loved yourself.
That is life for you....
It's just best to expect the worse while praying for the best.
You can be hurt by anyone....just anyone....no one is an exception...
Well...
In life things happen.
The best is to stop expecting from people so you dont get your good self disappointed.
Man such is life at the end of it all,we just move on and make lemonades from the lemons you was thrown. Keep pushing we will all be eternally happy someday.
@ewuoso Don't be sad dude people may come and go, it's there choice to stay or not but the most important thing is every people who came to you they always receive a pure love from you. Don't stop loving others because that's the only thing can explain how good are you.. Keep on loving dude, always pray and ask and God will provide everything that is impossible.
Thank you sir. I wont stop loving people
That's great! Loving other people is so bless.
What you are experiencimg is called unconditional love.
Reciprocation is not gauranteed but your karma will produce positivity if you are positive and inject positivity/gratitude onto all that you do.
Its good you can introspect and write abput your feelings!
Steemit has given us the chance to express ourselves.
Thanks for your comment
...it doesnt matter what you're going through, you gat to show up baby you gat to show the real, you got to show up on what you gat, so dont let them see what you're not...
Cos you're strong
You are wise
You are worth beyond a thousand reason why,
And you cant be perfect baby, cos nobody's perfect baby
Oh no no there's nobody in the world like you
_titina lines for you.
Be good. Winks
Even though they are not your words, i still say thank yhu
Amongst Jesus followers, one betrayed him. Always remember not all friendships end as expected. Never expect too much from people. Not all of them have good things to offer. Be happy.
i dont understand very well because i speak spanish but it is very sad when your friends make things bad to ours and dont say "Sorry".
That is the risk of living my friend.
Life is always an eternal come and go and in the middle of all that are the experiences.
By the bad you learn that you must always put your well-being ahead of others, that what we give is likely not to be rewarded, and that at least you believe you will always be betrayed by Judas, I do not know if for a few gold coins, but if for the sole purpose of doing evil.
All of them went through it, and I included myself in that club of broken hearts and bad experiences.
Greetings from Venezuela
yes ban, life is quite unfair as a fact, but don't let that stop you from being who you are, cuz after all said and done, what matters is you staying true to yaself, nuf adem peeple dema poser @ewuoso
Uncle jade... am seeing u
Phew!!!
You've addressed the whole issue with this
"As for me nobody knows how to love you. Only you can love you. And if you dont love yourself, nobody else will love you for you"
Human will remain human who will never fail to err or get on someone nerves. One thing I've learnt also is to expect the worst from anybody no matter the relationship and with that I'm prepared so that I won't be left devastated.
Wow! You are..............
All is well bro!
Peace all around!@ewuoso, so you have this burden in your heart and you came around to help us grow our community in lautech without a show of it.
Sorry about the disappointments, but these things make us stronger. Just like the old adage says ".. what doesn't kill us.."
Keep strong.
I am sorry for their betrayal and hope that you find someone who shows you true loyalty and friendship..@Ewuoso
Awwwn..
This post is a touching one and its really sending a good message to us all but @ewuoso,I want you to know today that everything that God allows to come our way is always with a purpose and for that,I would say be happy.And I would advise you pay more attention to those who love you than those you love for a happy life.ENJOY
Ooh, what are You saying...No Noes Anymore...
I dont get you
Somepeople make us, some Mar us.
My father says this everytime...
Especially after holiday when am going back to school...
Hmmn
Human can never be predicted. Today they show love tomorrow is something else. It's only the divine and oneself that can love affectionately without hurting and backstabbing as one will desire. Life itself is a lesson and the props for teaching that is human.
There is no need for sympathy as you've said but I feel the need to share this with you as I've gone through the same and I know how it feels.
I wish you the best of friends and ally who will remain faithful, reliable and lovely to the course of friendship.
Continue to love brother, its divine
Continue to help others, your deeds and impacts will continue to linger
good post like it...
Ugh this post touches so many emotions for me... i use to feel the EXACT same way. Until i realized that i can't help anyone until i help myself first and fill up my cup. Remember that when you help someone, try not to have expectations of them returning the favour, do things out of the kindness of your heart and you'll never be disappointed <3
Even some people we do call our people that we have thing together do go back and stab us at the back remember you only do for own for christ and nothing attached to it may God help us all