getting that balance is difficult, and it is because, since we are little, our parents and in our schools tell us that we must study to get a good job, they never tell us that we should do the things that make us happy,
Because they don't know about it and they think job is the best. It's universal thing that parents only want best things for their children.
another important point is to set goals, so we can have a balance, suppose that this year you want to grow your business 10%, having a clear goal established you focus on making it a reality and to fulfill it you can dedicate more time to the family, while if you do not have a fixed goal let's say you only say "I want my business to grow" you may have 15% or 20% growth and you will still be totally busy, focused on growing your business can happen all year and you do not reach a point where you say perfect, I already got the work goal, it's time to enjoy with my family.
Thank you for sharing your views with us with such a nice comment.