Hi mate, such a nice post you put together here. I'm sure each of the people you mention, and those you don't, think as highly of you as you do them, (us). Your legacy is the family you and @lynncoyle1 have created and in the memories you leave with them. We all go eventually mate, but it's not our passing that is left to recall, it's the life we lived seen through the eyes of relationships we created. It sounds like you had a great one surrounded by family and what more could a man ask for right?
Design and create your ideal life, don't live it by default is something I say a lot. I think you've done that.
Oh, we got your six bro. :)