Well, I would imagine you'll be getting your opportunities pretty soon.
You always hear about how much more fun it is to be a grandparent than a parent, and in a lot of ways it is. I have most of the perks and nearly zero the downside. However, to get to the grandparent stage, you do have to go through the parent level, and I don't think I would trade that now for anything in the world. As stressful as raising two boys could be, and everything that can accompany it, they've turned out pretty good I think. Still a little too Millennial for my taste at times, but better than many. I think eventually they'll be on their own and will have a decent foundation to make it after that.
And, the daughter-in-law has already said that the granddaughter isn't going to like it if they end up moving far away from Grandma, so they either need to stay close by, or take Grandma with them. I think that means I get to go, too. Maybe I should double check. 🤔