I was a single mom of three children for about 10 years. I worked three jobs some times just to keep my head above water.
My children grew up knowing the difference between wants and needs. We had all the needs covering (barely) and at times, had to ask for assistance from our church.
Now that I am where I am in life, we are constantly paying it forward. WHether as a Stewards Of Gondor recipient, the tithe at church and even once when we were in a fast food place (many years ago), a distraught mother was upset, as was her one young child who wanted to get a cookie from the menu.. Mom said no... little scene ensued. Mu husband spoke up and paid for their entire food bill; including buying all four of the lady's children a cookie for dessert. Just thinking about that moment warms my heart.
The only way this world can work, is the give you received, and the give you offer. Politicians and accountants don't understand. The world works because of give and take and offerings and acceptance. This has happened long before the 1800's and cowboy days.. it is the way of the human race.
Thank you for continuing the chain of survival. It should warm your heart. You and your family is well by paying it forward.
Note: Don't do it to the point you become suffering too. Just the extra you have to offer is more than plenty.