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RE: What and how much could you forgive if you are in love?

in #life7 years ago

Well it depends on whether you still love the cheating partner and care enough for the relationship to continue. If the answer is yes, then it's forgivable, if no then there's nothing to be done about it; the unforgivable affair just happened.

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it happened because she thought it would make her happy, after forgiving, the husband should go ahead and show more love..personal thinking

@posterking, yeah, that may work too.

So one partner in the marriage decides to make themself happy at the expense of hurting someone else? The person the vowed to love? Did you read what was making her unhappy? A lack of attention. If she felt neglected why not tell her husband? Why run to another person? The husband should forgive if he wants but the wife's need for attention is the problem. If the guy is busy, why can't she understand? Do people that love each other need to be joined at the hip all the time? If you need that are you really in a secure relationship? This woman actually has emotional problems and needs counselling.

Yes, emotional problems a plenty.

There is a right love and a wrong love, a nurturing or a possessive love.

@hopehuggs, I agree with you.

@baveva, do not spam other people's blog with posts links. Thank you.