5 things a man will do only if he really loves you (MEN TAKE NOTES!)

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Hey Steem! So this week I'm going to share with you 5 things a man will do only if he really loves you (MEN TAKE NOTES!) now before we get into these five things it's important to understand what I mean by the word left because there's a lot of misconceptions about what love really means so I'm going to borrow a definition that I was taught by America's greatest marriages. Couples that have been married over 40+ years and then would consistently tell me that love is not a Feeling.

I thought it was a feeling that we should have it is elusive and we have to feel it if we're going to be in love. They said No Love Is A Verb love is the demonstration of the actions that you're doing in the relationship. Love is also a decision, even when you don't feel like it but here's the thing your partner does not have to have a perfect record to actually demonstrate that he or she is loving you.

Today’s number one thing your man will do if he really loves you is: He watches the movie that you want to watch.

Now I know that might seem trite but it's the underlying motivation here that is the important key is it that your man your desires and your preferences matter at the same level that his do oven times when my wife and I are going to watch a movie I want to watch an action movie and she wants to watch the romantic comedy and so we negotiate right we give and take sometimes we’ll watch the action movie because she's showing love to me and sometimes we watch the romantic comedy because I'm showing love to her. So it's not about always giving up your preference for the other person it's about striking that balance and at least with making their preference over the same way as your own.