Living together in the bond of marriage is possible when you think for a moment it just illustrates the beautiful, because surely what appears in our brain is only love, togetherness that is full of love, and laughter.
But not in reality, because "Living together" in marriage is a simple statement that contains many struggles, there is patience that must always be mobilized, and there is also sincerity that must always be the basis for mutual commitment in together.
Yes, in living together, there is a lot of patience that we must muster, so that togetherness is forever meaningful. So, be aware wisely, decide together that not only the origin of love or just just happy origin.
But look at it right, is it good for us to take it together for a long time? Has he really been the person for us to fight in navigating this life? And have he justified that the person who is able to accompany us is either happy or sad?
And if all your considerations have been considered wisely and correctly, then decide by referring to God, so that whenever there is always togetherness, His blessings will always be received.
There is sincerity that must always be instilled in heart, so that the sense of mutual acceptance is maintained at any time. Because when we realize that there are no perfect human beings in this world, it is certainly the sincere nature that must be the mediator of the existing togetherness so as not to easily sue each other.
There is a sense of mutual restraint of ego that we must always teach to the heart every time so that when there are disputes, differences, and misunderstandings, we are not easy to say "divorce".
Because, the word divorce comes out of one of the two not because it is no longer in love, but sometimes because of selfishness that is no longer under control.
There is a sense of mutual respect that we must always instill in our hearts, so that when any anger on our partners is not easy to humiliate.
Because, not a few of us who choose to live together, but mutual respect for each other is still sober, so that it is very easy when anger occurs he unmitigated said very despicable. Na'udzubillah
And there is a sense of mutual understanding and mutual understanding that we have to instill in our hearts, so that we can trust each other and not easily fade away as a joint commitment.
Because, not a few of us who admit love die, they admire it very dearly, but turning to others when mutual trust fades because of the lack of mutual understanding and mutual understanding with each other.