Your Limited Fucks

in #life8 years ago (edited)

I want you to picture for a moment, a box.


Here, I even found this nice picture to help you

Inside of this box is, in fact, the number of fucks you are allowed to give. Let’s say you get 100 fucks over the course of a year.

"But Justin" I hear you thinking "Those boxes look... small… and not only that, those aren’t really all that many fucks…”

Why yes, dear reader, those boxes are small. And, yes, dear reader, that is quite the limited number of fucks, isn’t it?

But that’s the point. The box should be small, and the fucks should be limited.

The question now is... what are you going to give your fucks to?

You better think about it carefully.


You. This is you now.

Think about all the things we give our fucks to on a daily basis. I mean, really think about it.

That person cuts us off in traffic? They get one of our fucks.

Someone disagrees with us on the internet? There goes another fuck to them, too.

The resturaunt slightly messes up our order? Fucks. Fucks everywhere.


Everywhere.

And for what I ask you? Why do we choose to give away our fucks like stacks of dolla-dolla bills at a strip club?!

This, ladies and gentlemen, causes a problem. You see, when we choose to give a fuck about every little thing, it makes us disillusioned. It makes us believe that everything in life should go our way, that life should never be hard or challenging.

And that’s simply preposterous I tell you.!

It's preposterous because life doesn't work like that. It's never worked like that, and it probably won't work like that for quite some time. Maybe once we reach a point in technological advancement where we can scratch every part of our own backs just by thinking about it, things will be different... but, until then, life will continue to be a bit challenging.

So, when you choose to give a fuck about every little thing, not only are you robbing yourself of the opportunity to overcome the simple challenges of life, but also the greater challenges of life as well. If you give away your fucks to things like people in traffic and internet trolls, how in the world are you going to handle something that actually warrants a fuck? Such as a family member falling ill or a relationship falling apart?

Giving less fucks isn't about not caring at all, it's about caring about shit that actually matters, and when you start caring about the things that really matter and stop caring about the things that don't, you just don't get better at this whole life thing, you get better at this whole being a person thing, too.

Another side effect of giving less fucks is that your thinking begins to shift. You find yourself complaining less and appreciating more. You become thankful of the little things, because here's the catch...

The little displeasures in life are almost never worth giving a fuck about. The little pleasures, on the other hand, almost always are.


I mean just look at that sunset. You can even give it two fucks if you want.

Complain less and appreciate more. Be glad that you have things in life to be thankful for, and as far as your problems are concerned, be glad for those, too. Because it's only through those problems, and overcoming them, that you're able to understand the value of the things you should be thankful for in the first place.

So give fucks, my friends, just choose wisely as to what you give them to.


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Great advice! we will chat later :)

Great Post! People should chill out a bit :)

Only way to be really ; )

Loving it! With zero fucks given...

Haha good, glad you like it ; )

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i approve this message purely for the title. the whole thing was good, don't get me wrong. but the title will stick with me for awhile :P

Hey, as long as you gained value from it.. that's all that matter ; )

something different

Hopefully in a good way!

an entertaining way to package good advice... in boxes, of course.

Of course. The boxes are important.

Got it, I'm off to go give a fuck about a #writingprompts

Glad to hear it! @gowritingprompts will be one hell of an addition to steemit ; )

I really didn't give a flying f*$k ;-)

Excellent post my friend...worry about what matters

Thanks friend, glad you enjoyed : )

This post has received a 3.97 % upvote from @booster thanks to: @iamjustincscott.

Maybe you could go by: Justin Time (to give no fucks).

xD

You're not the first to make the joke, you won't be the last

Dude, my name is Noah...
I'm sure you've heard them all...repetatively

Cheers

xD at least you can relate haha

I'd comment something about how much I care about this post buuuuuut..... grins.

Srsly though, the underlying message is great, really appreciate you took the time to put this together. Well done scotty, beam me up anytime. <3

Glad you enjoyed it my friend, really enjoyed writing this one! Gonna format my posts pretty similarly from now on

I think it's awesome we can fuckin swear here! :) I'm having alot of fun on Steemit. Just joined a few days ago..i dont grasp it all yet but I will. Cheers

Good luck friend and welcome! Show no hesitation to hit me up on discord or steemit chat if you have any questions! : )

Thanks Justin that's really cool of ya. Have a great night!

Good point.

Great Writing and Great Message!
Fits my outlook exactly.
I have this picture blown up in my workshop to remind me.
https://postimg.org/image/hedrkea9r/

I only got a 404 error : C

Bugger! I changed link. Hope it works now.

Appreciate the beauty of life...it's endlessly offering itself for your pleasure and appreciation!

Perfect simplification right here haha, well done

Almost didn't give a fuck to read this post, glossed over it twice ;) It was worth at least a fuck and a half.

Ooohh, a whole fuck and a half?!

You're far to kind

Now that was fun to read. Which means I'll probably get stuck reading a really boring chart later on...or force myself to read one, create my own balance LOL

xD at least you enjoyed it, I thought it was fun to read also! try not to give a fuck about the chart.. ; )