Many people dare to dream big dreams but because of that little voice, they doubted their own capabilities plus there are people who laughs and tell people that it is impossible. And here comes a toxic person who strongly insist that you are a nobody and every attempt you make is a failure so better not try at all.
That little voice, that naysayers, and that toxic people brainwashed you that you can't and will never make it happened. And here comes the norms in our society who tells us to finish schooling, find a job, and get married. As if that's the only cycle every human being should follow.
And if you think that these are the only things that stopping you... wait... there's more. False advertisement, nonesense TV shows and movies that teaches people, especially our younger generation that building muscles and learning how to do our make up are the most important thing in this world. Look at our teenagers. Most of them thinks nothing but finding their prince charming to fall in love with or spend most of their time figuring out how to get a girl. And the list of things that stopping us from achieving our dreams is a long list. Interesting, isn't it?
No wonder why most of us won't dare to start dreaming. Others tried to follow their dreams but eventually, they quit. They gave up because they failed many times. They gave up because no one believes in their dreams. They gave up because they are tired.
If you really want to achieve and follow your dreams, you must be willing to walk alone. You must be willing to fail and get rejected hundred times. You must be willing to stand up every time you fall. You must be willing to fight and win the battle against yourself. You must be willing to be laugh at and to be criticize. You must be strong enough to surpass depression. And most of all, you need to believe in yourself no matter what. Because following your dream means walking alone. You brother, your sister, and even your parents will give up on you especially if you already disappoint them for countless of times.
Dreaming is simple but achieving those dreams is hard. It is always hard at the beginning, messy in the middle but very beautiful in the end. 😊😊😊 If you want to spread your wings and fly then learn to silence that little voice, learn to ignore the naysayers, and toxic people. Start feeding yourself with kind words, positive thoughts, and inspiring stories from successful person. Learn the art of selective listening, and you must learn to adopt the right mindset of successful people. If you can do all those things then spread your wings and fly.
WARNING: You will fail, you will make wrong decisions, you will stumble and fall. You will repeat these things hundred or thousand of times. But that's okay. Just learn all the lessons from these things as fast as you can. And always REMEMBER to enjoy the process of who you are becoming and how many people you touch and inspire along the way. 😉
Thanks @enazwahsdarb for sharing your thoughts to us. Hope to read more post from you. 😊😊😊
I am honestly left speechless. Completely lost for words.
This was such an in-depth comment. I was honestly considering multiple times to ask you if I could add the contents of this comment into my next post.
Originally I gave this comment a $0.30 upvote, but I have requested that @photobomb upvotes it further for you. Thank you for that.
PS. How long did it take you to write this?
@enazwahsdarb thanks for your kind words. I don't mind at all. If you think my comment is worthy of sharing to other people then please use it. I'll be happy when my thoughts are shared to others. 😉
Oh. Thanks for your generousity @enazwahsdarb and @photobomb. Really appreciate it.
P.S. 😊😊😊 I'm not sure. But I'm sure that it's less than 30 minutes.😉
By the way, I have a new post. It was intended for women but later on I discovered that it can be address to all. You can check it out. Maybe you get some ideas for your next post? Just maybe...
Great comment. I agree with @enazwahdarb. Thank you for letting me know.