1.Marshmallow-chocolate phase or "chemistry of love" (lasts about 18 months).
When a man and a woman meet and fall in love with each other, they have the body produces certain hormones that color the world in bright colors. At this moment the voice seems incredible, any stupidity seems amazing. The person is in a condition of narcotic intoxication. During this period you should not take any decisions, since the effect of the drug will end and everything will come to normal.
- The next phase, which necessarily ensues after the first, when the feelings of peace, it is the phase of satiety.
- The third phase is called disgust.
It is mandatory for any long-term relationship. In phase disgust start quarrels, as if you were given a magnifying glass and you focus on the problems that have partner. The easiest and most bad way out of this is divorce. What's wrong? Is that you again enter into the marshmallow-chocolate phase with a different partner.
There are people who only revolve on these three phases. In the Vedas these phases are considered below the level of civilized man, as in a real relationship you have not yet joined. - The next phase is patience.
A quarrel between the partners continue, but they are of such a fatal character as in the previous period, so both know when the fight is over, the relationship is again restored. If we put effort in I will shift the development of patience, we were rewarded by the development of the mind. This is the law of nature. So, in this phase, we are given a mind. - The fifth phase is the phase of duty, or respect - is the first stage of love.
Before that love was not. I'm starting to think not what he owes me, and that I owe him. Focus on your duties develops us. - The sixth phase is friendship. Friendship is a serious preparation for love.
- The seventh phase is love.
Love is not a cheap thing. To her life. Love learn through various life situations, and in the long-term, intimate relationship. Love is not something that falls down suddenly to our heads, for love we Mature, abandoning selfishness inside.
We choose parents? No, we love those who we got. Brothers and sisters we choose? No, we must love those whom God sent us. The one we choose, it is your husband or wife. Then come to us children. Unless we choose them? No, we love those whom God sent us, then the children bring their brides or grooms. We choose them? No, we need to endure and love, whom God sent us, to expand my heart and to appreciate those around us.
Therefore, people who are getting a divorce, first you need to know each other, then friends, and then to love each other. Most couples take it skeptically, but it is how we live.
Until we think that love is a marshmallow, we do not understand what love is.
Love is like the six tastes, which includes sweet taste and salty and tart and astringent and sharp, and even bitter.
We must not demand something from another person, we just have to be loyal to our love. Loyalty is the main quality of love. As the Bible says: "love never fails...".
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