I read some of your replies, and I completely agree with what you said here: " It's like the hidden secret of society that only pops up when everyone is talking about it, but it's always there."
It seems that each one of us carries many secrets that we don't often talk about. I used to have a blog called Raw Thoughts and Feelings, where I wrote out my "secrets" as raw as it is or was..My readers were all in shock and very uncomfortable. My life journey was not "dandy" enough for common comprehension :-(