Thank you for sharing, reading through your article never brought any memory until I got here
And I think this is how we truly memorialize the dead. We bring them into our lives. We love each other with the power of their love. We let them guide us as expressions of the love they now can fully be, so that we don’t have to wait to die before we can be it too.
And late dad who died three years ago flashed through my memories again. A happy man who made every one around him to be happy. His love is a great one but he is gone. Most times I wish he present to make me laugh and hold his arms again. It's all well that he lived a happy life and it's turn to live mine, bearing in mind that people will only remember us based on the life, one is currently living out.