What you wrote, and what you are going through, is 100% exactly the type of person I wanted to see tonight. Thank you for sharing your story. It's like the hidden secret of society that only pops up when everyone is talking about it, but it's always there.
You're currently going through a huge struggle... Sorry to hear about your wife's illness. This is hard on her. It is hard on you. To ever think some families aren't going through struggles today, they are...
The time you spent tonight sharing is well worth it. We're educating the majority. Some of us (ok most of us) are busy with our own lives... but when you stop and think. ...even for a moment... not all of us are doing okay... it brings real thought and compassion to the realism of life.
I sincerely thank you for explaining your situation and best wishes to you and yours...