Some of us spend years in unhealthy relationships that make us very unhappy and the person whom you gave your everything without keeping a bit to yourself has replaced you with someone else right in front of your eyes as if years of togetherness was just an addiction till she / he found someone else more beneficial and easily available.
Narcissistic abuse is not something new here. And most importantly it's not only men who are the culprits..female narcissists are the worst people on the earth as they very well know they can quickly replace you with anyone because they are always behind finding new supplies and no doubt men are the easiest targets due to their basic nature and liking towards women (being a man I myself agree to this).
Toxic relationships can take many forms and Narcissists are master manipulators so we hardly can save ourselves from their clutches. Many of us have had this type of people in our life being friends, relatives, co-workers or even the Love of our life as we thought it to be.
We may have thought that someone was our best friend until she started making fun of us behind our back. Or, we may have idealized our beautiful new lover without really noticing that she gets drunk every night, flirts with other men, even goes out with strangers in most mysterious way and gets irritated when we complain. Even put us down or emotionally abuses us just because she knows our weaknesses.
These are people with a personality disorder. They are most selfish creatures on the planet who love no one. For them everyone close to them is only a supply who feeds their ego, takes them high, make them priority and treats them above everything else in life.
In return they never go out of their way when you need them. Instead they will make you look like a fool in front of the mirror to expect anything from them. However, their stupidest expectation from you should be treated as biggest thing in the world. They feel no regrets, no remorse for their actions that hurt the feelings of other people. It's their birthright!
Unfortunately, very few of us are capable to diagnose other people. However, we can very well notice other people’s impact on us and our life if we are seriously involved.
I wish to open a blog / discussion on this topic and help people who have been victims of narcissistic abuse and also let them know that they are not alone...If we feel pain we are human, we are normal and we can heal ourselves as well.
