Me and my girlfriend dated for two weeks before we got pregnant, so I know the power of one choice! The amount of growth that has come about from the challenging situation has been massive though, I feel like I really grew up. We are going to be moving in about two years so have been shopping around locations.
PS. I really really really wanna at least visit thailand, mostly because of the food, otherwise because of the weather and interest in the culture
Thank you @jakeybrown for your comment and I wish you to visit Thailand.