Nice topic, I've had a major curveball recently: my daughter was born just over a year ago, wasn't expecting her at all, I had only been seeing the girl(now girlfriend) for 2 weeks before we knew she was coming.
I fought it so hard for a while, half accepting it, half wanting it to go away, and I don't know why, because she's awesome and my life is solid, and I've learned so much from every part of it.
Life throws curves, we just have to go with it or resist and watch the struggle/suffering persist
Yeah, that’s sure a big one! :-)