We could all agree on it that women today have high standards when it comes to choosing a potential partner to tie their knots with. Then we also have exquisitely beautiful women preferring men twice their age to marry. Men who are old enough to be their dads! Why is this so? Is it because older men are far more charming than younger men? Or is it the class that they bear that attract younger women? What makes these beautiful young women so inclined to ship themselves with someone bearing such a huge age difference?
Down here you will read all the possible reasons behind this phenomenon as to why these millennial women in their 30s prefer marrying men their father’s age.
⦁ Respectful Love is What Women Prefer
What I have observed so far, is that women like it when a man treats them with respect and show generosity. Older men are considered to be more graceful in that aspect. As they have more experience, they certainly know very well how to handle a woman and are aware of what she likes and dislikes. Older men can display munificence that really makes a female’s head turn.
A younger male may do so, but he does not know how long he is able to maintain the act. It could all be over too quickly. Men in their late 50’s are also emotionally stable and quite realistic when it comes to a practical approach to life.
⦁ High Rates of Having a Successful Husband
Women like it when a man is successful, man that has accomplished all possible milestones. Pretty and independent young women drool over a sixty year old grandpa simply because he’s a sugar daddy.
Also, an aged man living in a giant mansion owning 4 beautiful German shepherds and a stunning Bentley is surely not a bad deal to sign. Being more successful and experienced, these men always appeal more and are mostly successful in swaying the girls’ interest in their favor.
⦁ Older men are experienced
Apart from success, what else makes a younger woman prefer hooking up with an aged man? You guess it right! It’s experience, of course. Older men are experienced simply because they’ve lived their time. They have gone through crucial stages of life and are practical in terms of worldly as well as domestic affairs.
Aged men are extraordinarily skilled when it comes to handling a woman. He can satisfy a younger woman both emotionally and physically far better than a younger man would. Not only that, an older man is also very skilled when tackling a woman his daughter’s age as he already has a good deal of experience. Ultimately, women see a father figure in him as well as a soul mate having potential to make them feel whole.
⦁ Better Communicators and Great Listeners
They speak genuine words and not just spew nonsense gibberish. They know exactly what to talk about and are never hesitant about what they want. They’re bold and upright and also great listeners. They’d make sure to hear out everything their partner has to say. And women love it when their man pays good attention to them, even when they’re talking trash!
Older men are obviously skilled and take things cool and calm and never rush. They’re never in a hurry to state their own opinion. They wait until it’s their time to speak.
⦁ Older men are very mature and well-groomed
According to scientific studies, girls mature 10-15 years earlier than men. Older men have spent their entire youth and have reached the point where they exhibit more stability than the younger males. They’re also very mature and well tamed and know exactly how to treat a woman. They’re extremely patient and tolerant even during a catastrophic situation.
Mature men also show a lot of respect and are respectful in general. They’re not pretentious. They’re courteous and have not lost the most cherished ‘old school’ manners. A well-grown man will gracefully open the car door for his wife, and make her feel like a princess wherever they go. He won’t push her to do the things she doesn’t like and will always make her feel more special.
⦁ They accept and cherish
Such men want nothing in return from their younger life partners. They accept them as who they are and what they want. They make them feel complete by cherishing their every aspect and younger women are attracted to older men because of this very attribute. An older man would never ask her to change her daily routine, or her fashion sense. He would accept her as for how she is and would only want her to get better instead of trying to change her.
Honestly, women love to have a guiding hand in form of partner alongside them. Plus young women tend to be happier with older men because the age gap makes them work out their issues rather than relying on one sided compromise, which is the case with same-age couples.
well..nothing new ;) thanks for great article
Quite a provocative post, I am pretty sure old men with no money have a slight disadvantage, but please do prove me wrong?
People are quite different and everyone have preferences and besides, love is very hard to control no matter the age
This article is good. Personally, we have different preferences and marrying an older partner is not new. But it doesn't mean that men of your same age bracket is not capable of being a great husband :)
@jansher I would agree with you on these reasons you give for why younger women marries older men.maturity and experience is not just a matter a age. It is matter of the mind.Even younger men may be said to be matured if only they could give room for their mind to mature.unfortunately,they like to behave childishly by pursuing materials things rather than developing their mind.Our mind needs growth and only by the Spirit can our mind grow to maturity.
Even if older men looks mature and experience yet that does not make them good husbands.Check mots marriages to older men and you will see a high percentage of these younger women cheating on them.Anyways,I upvoted this post.Good post.
Very Nice and I have an older man for all of the reasons you listed above. No young boys for me. Too unpredictable and immature. I tell all of my friends. If you want to be happy get an older man. You will love it like I do. They rock!!!!!
So in other words as a 23 year old guy. I dont have to get married asap:)
The man with older age is more stable in financial and moreover he is no much choice left. Thanks @jansher for sharing.
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Mostly women choose to be with much older men because of Maturity. Young men choose to play only with us. they are not serious and sometimes woman are the one handling the relationship, which is too difficult to adjust with there brat attitude at times. sometimes they are not financially stable as well , unlike old men they are stable already, established they know what they want and stand on what they say. I don't use old man, instead its better to call them "Mature man". They know their responsibilities and obligations. They don't waste their time just playing with our feeling, they care and respect ladies..so to all the ladies out there looking for mature man, CHEERS!!!
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STOPMy perspective of the reason women marry older men is from the aspect of the combination of the man's riches and experience. With the two, the woman get the feeling they will be better taking care of than the younger male. @jansher but not all this ladies marry for mutual benefit of the union. Some marry for their selfish interest.
Is it because men of a certain age have values that we no longer find in younger men?