Life is another name of tests and trials. Tests and trials are never supposed to be easy. There are seemingly infinite obstacles that cross your way when you decide to live your life the way you want.
See, everything that you do in your entire life is framed inside a “space”. We don’t live in a vacuum. We live in a space which surrounds us. Whatever you allow being in that “space” around you, it shapes how your life will go, what you will experience in life, and how will going to feel. Now the question arises what is that particular thing that forces us in determining our space? You know what is it? It’s your thinking, my darling! Yes, believe it or not! Your thoughts and how you feel about yourself shape your entire life.
What are Our Primary Obstacles?
There are two major things that stop us from living the life we want. Let’s face them together:Lack of trust in yourself
Lack of your ability to manage your emotions
Remember, unless and until you decide to trust yourself, you will never be what you truly want to be. You will always be living a life of a lie. When you stop trusting yourself or never ever trust yourself, you lose the spark of your soul and never feel the clarity, congruence, or conviction in your matters.
Whenever you are going through something hard in life, never lose the power of self-trust. There’s a time in life for creating things, time for hustling, time for relaxing, time for fighting, and time for loving. You end up creating a beautiful time of your life, no matter what the phase is, when you master the power of self-trust.
How to Trust Yourself?
The world feels good when you are happy, strong, healthy and peaceful. All these things need determination and self-trust. Here’s how you can develop a habit of trusting yourself:Accept Yourself
You start trusting yourself when you know who you are and accept yourself the way you are. It comes with knowing your purpose, passions, likes, dislikes, strengths, goals, and limitations. You can only know about yourself when you start living your life in a true sense, when you take risks, when you accept your failures and when you learn from your mistakes.Take Your Own Decisions
Trusting yourself is a personal choice. Remember, no one holds any right to your life. You are your own master and you have your own choices. When you decide to take the decisions of your life yourself, you start realizing your power and potential. Always be faithful and factual while making choices about yourself and then stick to them. Trust your choices, think about them deeply and, after that, never regret them.Stop Pleasing Others
When you really trust yourself, you just stop worrying about what everyone else feels about you. You stop thinking about pleasing unnecessary people in your life who force you to follow their standards or rules.
What Happens When You Trust Yourself
Here are the major changes that become a part of your personality when you quit second-guessing everything about yourself and start trusting yourself fully:You Get Through Anything in Life
Ups and downs are the part of life and there are not rainbows all the time in your life. But, when you trust yourself, you can handle anything in life no matter how hard it is. You figure it out, get through it and become stronger than ever.You Stop Predicting the Outcome
Self-trust gives you a remarkable power of embracing your choices, your path and your journey. You do not try to predict the outcome of everything in your life, and do not want to skip or finish any story because of your certain fears.You Become Independent
When you start trusting yourself, you begin to develop a perspective on your life. You realize that your life is your own and you have to work on it yourself to make it better. You start expecting less from others and do not need people to “get you”. You finally come to know that those who do not accept you or your choices are not the ones that belong to your life.You Become Phenomenal in Life
Once you get honest with yourself and trust self-power, you begin to learn potential lessons in life – lessons that are good, bad, wise, happy, sad, effortless or tough. You, finally, develop a phenomenal attitude towards every aspect of your life. Life, relationships, connections, and freedom no longer scare you.
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Yeah me too! :) I always love these motivational posts with a valuable message. Ive had quite the journey myself and need every bit of motivation. Then... I share it with others! onward and upward! keep up the good work @jasimg
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Thank you so much for this! This video talks about the dangers of people pleasing....
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Nice post, thank you! Goals are what take us forward in life, they are the oxygen to our dreams. They are the first steps to every journey we take and are also our last. It's very important that you realize the significance and importance of goal-setting and apply this knowledge in your life.
If someone have bad and wrong goals, this kind of person will doing wrong and bad things.
If someone have good and right goals, this kind of person will doing good and right things.
The most of people in the world have only dreams not a goals.
The diffrents between them is important. The goals have exact path to reach your dreams.
People who dont have any goals, following people with big goals and helping them to reach their dreams.
If you dont follow your own goals, you can lossing control of you own life.
Please following only own good and right goals!
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I wrote it in my notebook : "No matter the situation, never let your emotions overpower your intelligence."
We always overthink all situations.
Thanks @Jasmig for your post! Got to learn to be confident in the things i love and also like you said, trust in myself with the choices i make. The key is also to be sincere which usually comes with knowing your strengths, faults and accepting yourself as you mentioned. This post is a good reminder, thank you :)
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I feel like I've devoted a lot of time and energy in understanding how to trust myself and trust that no matter what happens...all will be well. During the tough times I try to remind myself that I would have been obliterated a long time ago, had I not had the tools, strategies, or support to move on, even during the times of (seemingly) inevitable doom. I think the scary situations in life are there to show us that it is okay to trust more...and as we do trust more we also expand the possibilities in our life.
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