lol.... @ivanlager - I think you may want to re-look that "perception" or "perspective" - the reality is, there are a good number of PEOPLE (both male and female) facing insecurity issues these days ;) and at the risk of sounding complacent... you are probably one of them too in some way, shape or form... ;) So don't be too quick to "judge" and condemn.... there is a reason for her insecurity. It stems from a hurt, somewhere in her path of life and that too should be understood and respected.
;)