I miss to Make post - Take advantage of some things that can boost your career when there are enemies at the office.

in #life7 years ago

Who likes enemies? most people want to have lots of friends. But it can't be denied, we can not force everyone to like us. There must be some incompatibility because of some things, no exception at work. It could be that someone hates you and thinks you are a bully and a hindrance to his career. So, he did't hesitate to do the ways to eliminate you.

'The Enemies' like this need to watch out for, but there is a special trick for people who don't like you, this only be a weapon for improving your career. Check out ....

A two-faced office friend will make you more careful about choosing a co-worker


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Those two faces will usually always look good in front of you. Not infrequently they also often offer help without waiting for a word from you. But, don't be surprised when one day is unexpected, they will betray and eliminating you blatantly. Well, hopefully you become more sensitive when experienced with friend like this. In the future, you should be wise to choose relationships, especially those related to work. That way, your network will also expand alongside gaining friends to share experiences.

Don't be affected by those who like to gossip, instead you should be able to establish communication in a positive way


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Gossipers usually spread the news that isn't necessarily valid truth. They will tell you something they get from others and as if they are not from themselves. Don't rush into believing them if you don't want your career hampered by it. Let me not be a victim, away from gossiping activities at work. Try to establish relationships with colleagues in a positive way, that is honest and open. So if the dog is trying to poison your mind, you already know what to do.

People who like to criticize it is annoying, but with criticism, you will be more perfect again in completing the job.

Upset to have a colleague or even a boss who likes to criticize. They hobby really looking for small mistakes in order to blame your work all out. Worse yet, they can only blame without giving a solution. Well, take advantage of this experience to forge yourself and improve performance better. You will be a more meticulous and detailed person in completing the job. So, take advantage of your enemy's existence to improve.

The sycophant is your chance to work harder and show seriousness for an upward career.


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Some people have sycophant's friends who love to acknowledge the work of others as a toil. Not infrequently, these sycophants become the son of his boss pride. Don't get upset, you can stop this theft attempt with the discipline of giving a daily brief report to the boss every day. In this way, the boss knows the status and sees who is doing the actual work. You will gain trust because you have worked hard and diligent, so worthy of praise.

Eternal rival is the real enemy you should make a positive co-worker.


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There may be people who are always nice to you, as do you with other people. But you are two people competing in each other's work. Yupss, you and they are rivals. You are good friends but mutually booed in the back if one of them achieves success. But, if there is someone you do not like and interfere with teamwork, you will automatically work together. Because of the same interests, you too will become friends all of a sudden. As a result, you become a friend who is fit to be made a working team, right?

So, if you have enemies at work, do not always be avoided, they can be your stepping stone to improve your career even higher. Keep the spirit


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