Ah, Positivism!
That magical formula that is so highly recommended to us today to live a more fulfilling life. that allows us to be aware of the blessings that surround us, that perfect strategy that allows us to transmute fears and desires into ideals and timely situations to test our conformity and completeness with ourselves, remembering that (and for many infallible) phrase that he quotes "You attract what you think, reminding us why we can't think of anything we can't think of is beneficial and making us react almost immediately in self-criticism and giving ourselves the best advice we have at hand and in the best possible way, We repeat: "Don't think about negative things" followed by that famous and esoteric phrase that reads "attracts only the positive...remember! the Universe conspires in our favor...(Followed by a massage to the temple and a shake of the head shoulders) Have they been through?
Positivism: Antidote and Poison.
Positivism, like all modern trends that seek to create styles healthier, calmer, and more harmonious lives, has become the greatest cure for anxiety in many people, as well as being used as a kind of rule of thumb. unwritten to define a person we're meeting, however, as long as the more "positive" we are in the face of the different situations of everyday life, the more we are able to we are stripping away a series of natural measures of our body, which are If they are kept under control, they are ideal habits in terms of the control of our actions and allow us to anticipate a series of possible unfavorable events that could could negatively affect our daily activities, rather than simply "to think that everything will be all right and that's it."
It is logical to think that in order to prevent any adverse situation we must "think negatively", however, it should be made clear that the truth is that we are thinking of realistically, however, by being very absorbed in "our positive thinking" we can fall into a false peace or a mistaken illusion and generate favourable expectations without considering all the possibilities, so by ignoring "the cons" we can even be apathetic of our own situation creating an incredible fragility, already that we never prepare for a possible unfavorable act.
Thank you, but no thanks.
Living in search of the positives of each situation is a perfect tool to help us to deal with and learn from everyday problems in an effective way, and it is the foundation of maintaining that precious good cheer we so badly need every day, because as they say. the great thinkers, guides and gurus of interpersonal relationships "We get what we give to the rest"; however, as I warned earlier, the good side of things' can lead to the creation of a of weaknesses in our ability to prepare for adverse situations, as well as to reduce our ability to try to ensure more efficient and effective actions in the field. decision making, avoiding as many elements as possible that could be unfavourable to us, Being then that, ironically, many times thinking wrong or seeing the aspects is also positive, as it allows us to shielding our projects and calculate the level of both positive and negative impact of our ideas.
It's naive to believe that everything will always work out for us just because we want it to, so don't do it.
Oh no!?
Golden Rule
To conclude, I think it is clear to us that it is all very well to be positive, to believe that everything will be fine and we will always achieve our goals, but FOR WHAT YOU WANT! remember that nothing is perfect, everything can go wrong if you don't foresee the risks of not being able to get rid of it plan your activity well and no, your co-worker is not a "bird of ill omen". because he detected a possible flaw in your plan, so please stay true, Take advantage if someone visualizes a weakness to work on it and "armor" your idea.
Remember: Even excess blessings can turn to poison.
