Ooooow lord, the new phase has reached!!!
My mom told me in retrospect of my childhood: "yeah only now I know teenagers just cant help it of being so lazy, it turns out to be a chemical situation of the brain. If I had known that then, we would have had so much better days in stead of only fighting"
My dad said:" yeah we only started relating after you found out I was able to cook, but I just hated it"
Im glad you already found out at age of 13 how to relate, even though its just baby steps ;))