We often are so focused on making changes in our lives, but sometimes it's passed due. There is nothing we can do, Or heck sometimes the decisions aren't right for us, And we know it. But our heart wants to keep denying it.
We gravitate in that direction despite our brains knowing it's not good for us.
We bust our hearts, and sometimes, in the end, We still don't end up with what we wanted.
Sometimes things don't work out; They won't work out. Despite all the fight we put towards accomplishing that goal.
It's Not Time Yet!
I hate looking at things from that perspective, I like to believe that I have full control and power over my life. That I can make a difference, That I can make changes based on the opportunities and resources I have in front of me.
But sometimes that's not the case.
Sometimes it seems like no matter how hard you fight; Things don't work out the way you want them to.
And ultimately you are left exhausted without that thing.
While I'm firmly a for being proactive and doing what you can to get what you want, Sometimes it's simply a lost cause.
Losing Hope To Move Forward
The beauty of losing hope means we can work to move forward. Often when we feel that the situation is hopeless, We go into recovery mode and we can start to heal and look for other solutions.
It allows us to get ahead, We often cling to hope that something will pan out, And it causes us to move slower towards our other goals in life.
Sometimes We are Pleasantly surprised
I Love it when I lose hope that something will work out, I set myself up for something else. And that opportunity comes back.
That's what happened to my Merch account, I was terminated, But was still fighting to get it back, So I looked for other options on my shirt store. I found a new way to get those shirts on Amazon. And once I had that store going, Amazon contacted me to let me know they decided to reinstate my account, So I got the opportunity to keep both stores, and it was an incredible feeling.
Sometimes things can and will work out, Just not right when we want it.
I struggle with this a lot- holding onto hope even though it is clearly best I let it go. It's a difficult subject.
It is hard, But you sometimes gotta do it just to move forward. You can't move forward if you are holding onto it too tightly.
It's better to see a miss as the wrong time to gain that, and believe it will come some time down the track.
Benching ideas or goals etc just allows you to work towards other things which can in turn, lead to the misses becoming hits! :)
WOw I love that! Exactly! And sometimes it comes back, Like your quote, It's the "wrong time".
Good article. Very relevant when it comes to relationships. You can't force another person to stay in a relationship so all you can do is put your best foot forward and see if they dance with you or stomp on your feet.
@kaylinart What a fantastic piece that puts everything into perspective. I have always my whole life had doors shut on me and then another BETTER Door is Opened. I Love the STEEMIT Door the most in the last Year and a Half. This is the BEST Door for anyone if they are willing to Open it EVERYDAY !
Well its nice to motivation yourself and encouragement @kaylinart
I appreciated and support your article its really for steemian who loose their hope.
Resteeming and upvote
All the best and keep it sharing
That’s the real life, there are ups and downs. Only people who give up won’t succeed.
I don’t know you, but I belive you are a fighter.
Going in one more round when you don't think you can - that's what makes all the difference in your life.
Resteemed!
I am a fighter! But sometimes we need to go for other opportunities that have a better yield.
I agree, life is a full of lessons. But giving up or not believing in your innate worthiness can cause you to settle for less than you want or deserve.
You pose an interesting way of seeing or analyzing what it means to lose hope, I like it. To lose hope for something, for you, is not to renounce it but rather to look for other options but having your initial option pending. For you, losing hope does not mean quit but rather working. Well done. Greetings-
Exactly! My view I feel is slightly less negative.
I really like your posts, always so motivating and a reminder to stay positive. I was in a cranky mood most of 2017 because of FB completely killing my organic reach, but, it led to me to finding Minds and Steemit and now I'm focusing on building the new and not on fighting the old anymore :)
The best motto in life: never give up!
Yes, But sometimes it's good to give up on certain things, So you can go after other opportunities.
I know what you mean but if you really want something you should never give up :) i just started a vlog here on steemit and today i got like 0 people watching it but still I dont give up because I just like it :)
I love an positive attitude! And you have it.😀
Great story
I believe that sometimes letting go of our strongest wishes can actually help us make them come true. If we struggle too hard for too long, we will exhaust ourselves both mentally and physically. Doing something else for a bit and resting our mind and body can ultimately help us achieve the main goal.
@kaylinart he said 'Regardless of whether you will lose, why are you battling', he overlooked that he ever lives to pass on one a moment.there is dependably an expectation for everything.
That's pretty cool to know thanks for the tips by the way, have a nice..
a good post my friends will always follow you and I am very happy if you want to visit my blog thanks @kaylinart
@kaylinart he said 'Even if you are going to lose, why are you fighting', he forgot that he ever lives to die one a moment.there is always a hope for everything.Thanks for sharing post...
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i like your picture..
i love you medam..
god bless you..
thanks for sharing..@kaylinart
Thank you
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Maybe is not about giving up hope, but more about finding alternatives to make things happen
I think a organized and determined person can do almost anything
I know what you mean, sometimes I just prepare myself for the worst case scenario and thinking of other ways out of the situation in this case,coz it never hurts to be prepared and really how you say move on with the situation.Im Happy everything worked out for you;)
Life is a really long way. In this way, our possibilities are our means. The bad things we've been through are like bad weather on that road. Misfortunes, things that are not on the planet.
On this road, of course, there is hope. Beautiful views, beautiful paths, information about where we want to go.
We need to know what we want before anything. The good things we live in must motivate us, and the bad things must motivate us. And finally we should get what we want.
A perfect sharing as usual. Thank you. Everyone should see it. I made it Reestemed, my friend. @kaylinart
life is a way out of reach.Everyone can be happy when things go well because there is no difficulty.it is a matter of coming from above to be happy when things go bad.Because there are struggles that have gained with difficulties, there is labor that gives more happiness than an easily won victory.Sometimes it is important not to get stuck and then continue.@kaylinart
We cant afford to lose hope and focus. Forward is what we are looking at, backward is the learning and experience that will back us up. Towards we shall move on together, grab the meaningful things along too :)
Amazing post @kaylinart
Things can be bad at times, as life is not always the same, you will reach the goal, just play your part and role.
I will always follow you
Well it might be correct that letting go a project because we have literally nothing more to do about it is right, I do believe we have some sort of connection with reality, that allow us to change our life, our future and our circunstances just by thinking about it . Maybe that’s what happened with your amazon store, eventually your thoughts might have affected reality and molded it the way you wanted.
First of All very Beautiful picture, actually you are Beautiful!! 😍
Never lose hope, May be it's wrong time but Keep trying and Keep moving forward. Every time you achieve something even if you lose so motivate yourself with those achievements. When the time arrives every thing will be better, beyond your expectations..😊
We are always hearing messages of perseverance in our culture. It can be hard to feel good about giving up. I just did a post with this quote in it: If beating your head against a brick wall over and over doesn’t make a difference, at some point you have to realize you’re only damaging your own head. Your post really puts a good perspective on it. There is hope in giving up on something. Not just trying to find away around the same wall, but turning an entirely different direction and finding an open door.
I never allow myself to hope for anything. It's like an auto-defense mechanism, which allows me to never be disappointed. But I agree that once you give up on hope completely, you can more easily move on =)
Another great article , thank you.
If that's what it means when giving up hop e then it's fine to give up hope on something and move on to something else.
I read some books and i realise, the only big steps in our lives only come when we get our biggest set back, our biggest dip.
Maybe we let go of something that we thought was important to something that works.
Yes letting go is also a strength of it's own.
Otherwise thanks for this post. Well explained.
I really like that idea of losing hope in something but never give up is like accepting that there is not the way but there is another or others where to reach the excellent goal post greetings
You always capture my interest with titles like this, that make me say, "What? Is she saying to give up hope"? But then your explanation is so relatable and, in the end, so obvious that it's been staring me right in the face the whole time without my appreciating it until it's pointed out. Does that make any sense? I really learn from your experiences and your explanations of what they taught you. Really, I think I would just be pissed off and give up, but then I see how you triumph and thrive when challenged like this and find myself inspired. Thank you!
"Sometimes things can and will work out, Just not right when we want it."
I love this.
We can be eclipsed by moments in time. Keeping in perspective the greater vision can guide us towards better things, and help us prevail during tough times.
Yes, I guess the loss of hope is the the firing up of intelligence, the kind that allows losses to wash back out with the low tides, yet effortlessly anticipating, something always washes back on shore, even a very big surprise.
Opportunity came floating back to you!
Your beauty is felt in your writing...
Thank you for these reminders.
Lynn
I'm a firm believer in "Things happen for a reason." For me to reach a point where I'm starting to lose hope means that that thing wasn't meant to be for me; for something in my life. Keeping hope for far too long because I think it's a good thing will really make it a bad thing.
Interesting post @kaylinart! You always see articles about "Never give up hope" so I was curious as to what you had in this blog so I clicked on it. Wasn't disappointed. I like the different perspective :)
I think in those times of loss of hope there is an opportunity to look at our perspective in the situation. Our expectations of what a success or opportunity looks like can get jumbled over time. We just have to keep growing every day and stay aware of ourselves and the world around us.
I do believe it is possible to take what you have in front of you and make things happen with the right mindset. However we get caught up in our concept of what that is supposed to look like and we miss a not so obvious path to a place of true beauty.
I have learned a lot about life from some of the dumbest things. For instance, I used to collect rocks, not pretty rocks like someone might buy at the store, but rocks I would find at the river or hiking. I was interested in their personal character. They all had and resonated a vibe so to speak. Anyway, countless times a rock would catch my eye, and either on the way to that rock or underneath that rock I would find a rock that was so much more intriguing that the rock I originally set out for seemed uninteresting in comparison. I think life is much the same way while some goal might lead you in a direction, if you are aware and open minded you might find out what you went looking for was small fries compared to another opportunity found "accidentally".
I think as long as our goal is to improve ourselves rather than reach a destination we can be prepared for whatever opportunities arise. We can't see the future, but if we try to make ourselves better everday we are likely to be prepared for what it has to offer.
I find this "loss of hope" state of mind to generally be an indicator that my framework for understanding the situation is faulty or needs to be refreshed.
I enjoyed your article and I am now following you. I hope you succeed in all your endeavors. :)
This is an interesting article -- I think the main takeaway: never lose hope in YOURSELF. Sometimes what you are trying to do, just isn't suited for who you are. But never lose hope in YOU.
Excellent
great photography looks so cool :)