That's the wrong way to live. If you don't care about all this sooner than later you would end up having people in your life that will add nothing to you.
It's okay to be nice to everyone but must they be nice to you first.
Why must someone always qualify for our love,care, attention,or even our time.
What ever happened to selflessness?
If you are gay and you meet me, bro you are about to loose your gay-liscence because I'll welcome you and help straighten your senses with the word of God.
It's time we put our foot out there.
Trust me you'll be doing them a favour .
@klynic