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RE: Is forcing yourself to find a partner in life any good?

in #life8 years ago

I was speaking recently with a friend of mine about these things, as she is involved at the moment in a relationships that isn't really working and brings her little joy. At some point she said "I'm terrified of being alone"! It was a shock to me. I think we must all be prepared to find ourselves alone at some point. Children grow up and leave, partners might also leave or just die, we all do eventually. If you cannot face the idea of being by yourself it seems to me you're not happy who you are or how you've lived your life.

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Yeah i must agree.. I've had issues with staying with myself for quite some time. But at the end you see that you are never alone.. Im sitting in my room here now by myself, but there you are, having a discussion with me :)

Hope you and yourself come to some sort of understanding :) It's not good when you have issues with your own self, but admitting to them and trying to fix them is better than denying their existence.

Yes, spot on, just read this after i replied myself, mastering loneliness and finding yourself fully in this is the key to step out...