So you could argue about semantics or you could take a different approach.
What if the ladies who complain about only attracting jerks think of themselves as not loveworthy "jerkish" women? Let's suppose you believe in mutual attraction. Would you believe that a self sufficient and established man (a.k.a. a real man) would like to go out with a self centered vanity girl who is all about looks? Or would you believe that jerks who are the same will come flocking?
Ladies you need to find out who you really are and learn to love and respect yourself. This is the only proven way to find your soulmate. (Provided by the highly objective experience of myself.)
And also don't go out with little boys who think buying you shit means being a nice guy. They need to grow a pair.