The pendulum swings, from a masculine breadwinner/head of the house to a feminine equivalent. How long before the women are all Amazons? and the men tend the home fires?
There is a middle ground but unfortunately, we can't seem to stay there.
I think your daughter has it right, do what she wants [mow the lawn occasionally] when she wants and share the other minor jobs
I think she has it right too. She will make a benevolent ruler one day hehe