Why fear seems to be the root of all memories but is actually part of the normal process of "clearing the mind". - Daniel Hazelton

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Why fear seems to be the root of all memories. - Daniel Hazelton

I have found there is an important feature to the way we handle positive and negative outcomes. It seems to be connected to that sense of achievement that does or does not occur when you reach the end of any given task. I have come to the conclusion that 'this effect of fear based memory' is a construct of having been a creature of the wilderness in the past and that it is due to danger awareness/fear of death.

Let me use a crude analogy based around any game - lets say for instance I am playing a game of chess....

If I win at the game, the moves I used were not questioned, I did not need to return to them to work out how to win because I had won. The outcome of this in my mind is that - Those processes were accepted/forgotten. Accepted to the point where they can be forgotten in the short term. Thus relying on that information to be in the same place as it was when I last accessed it ie., In long term memory. This process clears your short term awareness in order to make room for new information.

If however I lose the game of chess, the memories of how I lost are stored in short term memory for analysis.
Questions like - Why did I lose?, What had I done wrong (which takes quite some processing)? and What should I have done? all automatically are used. The whole process is then stored in long term memory for later study.

So to conclude it seems clear why we would appear to only have negative memories, due to all that storing of "How to fix that problem" data and subsequent "should I let this ever happen again?" and "What's the solution?" questions that arise from that. Memory clusters of information are gathered in this way so a system that uses association to retrieve data would therefore have far more action during these times of fear and neccessity for awareness. This would also be the time that adrenaline would start to have its effect of giving me a sense of time going slower than it actually is - I associated this effect with the notion that I am now storing far more memories than at previous operating speeds. Simply put we remember problems not solutions.

Poetically put - On the surface - It looks bad - under the surface it looked good.

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