I too see this often not only with parents but also with school teachers. I have found myself sometimes slipping into a negative role and later reflecting and regretting. So I am sure your comments helped maybe pull her back into reality and maybe she will reflect on how she could do that better next time! ... and even making comments can be courageous instead of just walking on by. Maybe it helped changed the situation for the better. Thanks for the story!
You are welcome. I thought when she tried to confront me that not knowing the situation it was better just to not try and one up on her. Better for both of us!!
I agree ~ best to leave with as much positive energy left on the table as possible. That is the charitable way!