HOW PARENTS CAN DEAL WITH TANTRUMS
Tantrums. That is what many kids throw. It’s not uncommon to see them getting extremely upset, screaming. Many kids never accept no for an answer. They want to be in control. They leave their parents out of the picture and think only about themselves.
Unlike most adults, children cannot really control their emotion. Also, sometimes, little thing can irritate them and the next thing they result to in throwing tantrums
One of the reasons why children throw tantrums is also because since they were babies, they have been used to being care for by their parents. The parents knows the child depend on them completely but little by little, parents begins to give rules. They want the child to do things he or she is not really used to before. For instance, when a month baby or few months old baby cries. The parents do all they can to care for the child, they want to know why he is crying. They sing for him and they do everything they can to make the child relax and stop crying. But as the child grows older, the parent tells the child to stop crying. Some parent may even scream a little to the child and the next the child does is to cry the money and may ever throw things at they or away. Some kids may even throw their food to the floor.
What can parent do when they see they kids throwing tantrums? The following suggestion will help:
Don’t cream at them: Most parent do scream or yell at their child when they throw tantrums. Please don’t take them too serious. Just pretend as if you did not notice the tantrums and give your instructions. Do not waver in your decision.
Remember: Remember that you child is still small and he or she is trying to get adjust to many new things in his or her life. Don’t be too add on them.
Let Your No Means No: You are in charge not your child. Please never let your kids tantrums make you change your decision and as a result, your child continues to do what he wants.
When in public, do not be ashamed to correct your kids. If you feel correcting them in public is not common in your culture, take the child aside and correct the child. In many African countries, it’s normal to cane a child. If that is legal and acceptable in your country, giving them a little may also help.
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