You imply I tried to speak like a victim by picking apart a small piece of my comment but maybe I didn't express my point across properly or maybe you decided to not read the rest but I was trying to imply that the only way to happiness and fulfillment is to not walk the beaten paths, to stay away from tree paths everyone else takes and most of all, separate ourselves from what society tries to impose on us, picking sides.
Picking sides is what is dividing us and we get no benefits from it, that's what I meant with the political actors influencing us that you tu to paint as victim speak.