You are most welcome Mave; I'm so glad that I can be a positive in your life :)
Sometimes I look back and think what else I could have done.
...and that's the worse thing to do I think. Hindsight is always 20/20. I always think about people's motivations when I'm thinking about their actions, so as a kid, I'm guessing there wasn't anything you could have done differently to change things, mostly because it wasn't you that needed changing.
Sending lots of love and hugs my friend.