Nice to find this mind provoking article at divine time and right on point reply from @shello
I just recently had to admit to myself that toxic people are a huge and important part in my quite exciting life so far and used to be a subconscious choice to face my own issues. There cannot be light without knowing the darkness or let’s say that you better become a good friend for your own demons.
I will probably always feel an attraction to “toxicity” and instead of walking away, I wish to DETOX together.
I never chose the easy path .....
Happy New Year Rok 🌺🍀⭕️
@mammasitta damn right. By ignoring and hating our own shadows we lose any remaining hope that we may have. To some of my friends in the past, I have been the toxic one... and sometimes also the one to receive an apology when perspectives change. Toxicity is a bizarre state of mind!
Sometimes it worth the effort to stay... not often, but there truly are ways to cleanse together. Time and patience.
Why choose the boring way? c;
I just posted this quote the other day at my Instagram and it fits kind of well to your reply and rounds up my thoughts and lessons I am learning everyday. I have to get rid of such immense anger I still feel deep inside, including a toxic mind but at least I finally understand why it’s there. Break outs are not so much needed to find my “detoxed“ balance. ........I really like you ! 😻
This resonates with me possibly more than I ever could convey. We always want the knowledge, without having to go through the lesson. Everything that has happened needed to be this way, in order for the me to to grow and become the person I am now.
Sometimes it really sucked, but I would not trade it.
♥ Thank you @mammasitta you are a sweetheart, -@shello