Are all the responsibilities of the eldest son of the family? What else can it take?

in #life5 years ago

Friends, how are you all of course you are good and always be good and healthy I wish this blessing to come back to you again to share some important things and of course you will love my posts and posts because they must be about our daily life. .

Because you all know I always love to talk about our lives, I love talking about what's happening in our lives and what can happen.

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There is something in our life that we do not even imagine, but when it does happen, our state of mind is definitely not worth seeing because if something that we have never imagined happens in our lives, then we would be surprised at it.

Every man has an expectation that he will do something good in his life. He will do good for his family. His family, his family, are always smiling.

Normally in our little family, the elder son of the house is either given away all the burden of the world. Suppose there is an important job or money somewhere. How to run the family, but seeing the older son of the house and it has long been a custom. Coming because he has to see it.

And the person who has a little boy or family in the house but gets a lot of love and a lot of love from everyone because he is so small and he can't do anything, he is always a fun vessel and he is always happy and happy to have him. No one has to work so that it doesn't hurt.

Exactly the burden on the older children of the family is greater because if there is only one person income source in one family, one person is employed and if there are four people in the family one person but four people know how to run and only one person knows how to run. The one who works and the big boy in that family.

Like, just like me, but today it has been five years in Malaysia, exactly the same situation in my family, my parents parents are younger brother and my daughter and my wife are five five but I have to look inside the family and I have only one income. But she's leaving it for the future.

But one thing I do know is that I was surprised to think that even after I did so much, I did not feel good to them. It has not been 5 years today. I do not see their faces. I am leaving the country today. But my sadness is that they never tried to understand it. It is sad to think that because I was the eldest son in the house, if I was a child I would not have to do so much.

By the way, friends, I shared my hope that none of you would feel bad and that you would understand my situation.

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@mamun123456, It's not like that at all but in my opinion in many cases whoever is the elder one they receive more Responsibilities for sure and in many situations they create the direction.

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