My young friends ... my new university , please take 1 minute to read this article that " profound "

in #life8 years ago

 
1. In the company of his friend Bony have 2 generations of employees .

One is due to send countless acquaintances , most full second prize winners nationwide ngáo ignored despite all university graduates . He finished training , capable of working again . Second -generation , ie young people themselves seeking information he posted online recruitment , on an IQ test , English language ability , satisfactory and to do . He saw labor productivity is much higher 2nd generation . Have you come very early , very late . Doing everything from what not , everything is kept spiraling , nhoay nhoay , also fascinated everyone likes . And 100 % have to work more in the students , should arch bravery , not " thanks to aid relatives ' inception.

Although he's done, but the group "to recommend" no self-discipline, with new monitoring work, a business trip, the boss of this team immediately went late, leaving early, even "enlist" corrupt reasons car, traffic jam, headaches ... to hide at home, office or administrative work in the office rather sit facebook chat is primarily, though the company has worked rewarded on merit. The group surrounded by small family, very much as payroll, bonus reward is better not does not matter, who asked not refresh as they sat there. Call recording "to-do list", they will push some new languages ​​have been few lines like "calling for some, emails to several people wear out". Habits parents should do everything limbs, brains are not moving, nor do not know what to laptop clean. He said, this is the last time you received this crowd wealth, people who ignore what they say, he has no obligation to do charity with this bunch of incompetent anymore. Look us it yawned lazily languid strokes myriad darts just want to face. When interviewed, the child does not know how to see the little house from the selected class schools, college entrance examination is 30 points away absolutely not received. Because their parents do all the housework, the won will continue to proclaim love, month also sent support payments, loss of motivation or passion we live it. Go do we call it, there is room "carrying umbrellas dark morning carrying on," the company did not develop staff type this. Buildings and vehicles parental leave or buy, parents chosen discipline, life mistletoe Games like climbing, others entire household decisions. That there are fathers mothers eccentric brother, kept interfering in their children's lives as the time of slavery. "You sit at your desk for me, I called down to mealtimes. Streamline math exam you Polytechnic for me. Medical exam for me. Economic competition for me. You just go to school for me, I adopted, no need to do extra work. " Just the whole "for me", selfishness under the name "love" has lost the ability to decide existence of other living individuals, turning normal children with disabilities into the hands and feet and mind because do something well win, win think households.

The company he organized learning English , training , fitness games , sports ... but only join group New Generation , the old group was " forced me to learn English , I will learn to . Exercise forced me to go away , I'm going to give . Not out loud , do not attempt to present it offline . " They say the old days of being forced to go to school , " in him , in baits " start school . To school because of attendance , the teachers were arrested not because of desire to learn knowledge . The goal is to have something by . Reading exam just because of that , but not related to the book , read detailed examinations ? Should go to work, they do not, the boss presses alone . Self-awareness is absolutely no . Making the company boss in this staff category tired , a little wear and damage hour , screaming thundering sky did they do .

Top officials , raising their salaries but also ham and rolls are not stars . For they would not leave the sorrow, returned to their parents, " wandering through the half-life , are you on his face in the automobile " . His father telephone mothers throughout the acquaintance , knives sapwood begging others ran off , O Lord he goes through her ​​travel, begged alms for my child first job, I like this old still had to beg for work make children for children , elderly relatives do not have pain ? Saying so , then burst into tears. Who is in charge now?

Mai An Tiem said one sentence infinity or " of courtesy is the worry of the debt is " . What others will forever be their " debt " . MYSELF should do all the work for his 18 years of age or older to decide his life . Mai An Tiem mirror there. Exiled to the remote island still live well , live alone his wealth remained in the city , in the mainland .

2. The radical solution to tackle unemployment of a society

Bony go teach a class startup CEOs , common area that is under 30 and has little independence from . Thus , the problem ORIGINAL unemployment / start a business is to create independence for young people .

Bony also noticed, you know for 100% of washing cooking, wipe the door clean the house yourself know, self-aware motorcycle and bicycle repair electronic and electrical items in the house, sew, know more in time school ... despite how little narrow specialization school, get a job remain free, or open something self-entrepreneurship. Whether in high school pedagogy certain mountains, good teaching, the private schools in Ho Chi Minh City has received numerous employment. Bony with her you graduated University library management culture, she said she mostly unemployed class, except those who work in the student added. They do manage bookstores, publishing companies, private or open something without majors. There you majored also narrower, ie museology, but in the meantime, forge learn English, do the scientific research projects, participate in clubs or something unions, attended the thi ... they can still be kept in school, or apply for a scholarship to further studies, or may have received countless places to work, though other sectors. You handle it with good public without work, only by the good ones, and the red, inferior, and not learning because real power scores. Strength is to get a job, get the money, whether or zither piano lessons, art lessons or dance lessons, learn what ... any industry.

1. With the young people who have graduated but unemployed : I have knocked all the support of the family . Any new accounts take money from parents , new parents because her children know their job . His denial of all, themselves feeding . Manual labor was also there , as long as there is money . My mind there , slowly going up .

2. Students who have just graduated from high school : If you like what's your major , and determined to defend their choice. From small independent groups have said they like something , do something good . Do not even know what it is like clam GROUPS corn, with also learned dozen unemployed. MUST borrow to their learning from other parents ... not received " non-refundable aid " again . Want others to have the confidence to invest in yourself , your confidence , we must advance. Independent person would be confident , self-reliance , self-esteem .

To build self-esteem consciousness his first, by "say NO" with other people's money. Absolutely NO NO. Money is the mother father money from their labor, not yours. No billionaire does come up from the lottery win. We have not one at home first by his grandfather left. Thousands of years of history what the train west, too, the great ancient palaces are now museums, though the "giants" of dowry which are intended for children, from Windsor Castle in England, nutrition Hoa Than in China to the summer palace in Russia ... every generation to generation, the descendants of a sudden does not hold anymore. Just buy him his first piece of land, one house, a pile of gold ... it will sell gold to eat, best selling land once then cut once, and then to sell the house, then fell into poverty ragged. But then another generation, then to turn up because BEEN living in poverty.

So poverty is a great opportunity. Wealth is a challenge for a child's success. Must take advantage of their difficulties, and overcome the praises, let go of all the pear velvet carpet to roll in the dust, to his future. If I missed the birth of the rich already, tricked out, do it themselves, on their own lives. In Ho Chi Minh City, please parents to study in other provinces and other cities, except only in the new city, the bear, but let's learn about the Can Tho Agricultural, Biological Physics or Mathematics, then to Da Lat, Nha Trang seafood school, a maritime school in Hai Phong, Hue music lesson ... Exit the glass out of the casing of the family, to be free to live. Must have the morning wake up thinking today how to have rice to eat when no one penny purse, where to sleep tonight when the rent not paid, must apply for a part time job somewhere to get a hang , to spend ... the thoughts so will help her vicious cortical folds up of maturity, of confidence. No one is to starve the road, you should remember that. When the same street, one thought must go eat charity, pagodaless eat, you had to borrow money, or xyz ... somehow to survive.

3. Parents of all children must trade them with other educational methods . By the age of self- promotion knows food is rice , wash self cleaning , self-learning , self- playing . They pressed the morning to wake up early , cleaning wipe the door clean, clean blanket pillow projector , cook pasta cooking water to feed itself , you are not fasting shelves . Last week urging it to scan spider's web , television refrigerator cleaning , pet care Landscaping , painting , home repair , attend social activities , it's absolutely not for ipad iphone laptop or hug when not done housework done . If the school has organized a shuttle bus ride is for them to walk with friends , not to transfer , jam jams sá front of the school . Do not beg for their jobs . Do not force them to study their favorite , I like , I go to school .

4. RICH HAVE MISSED parents , then your children an educational environment to advanced training at age 18 and up. School because of passion , not for qualifications , vocational education was not necessarily literacy . Do not force them to learn if they do not like school , indulged only children new words for them to borrow money in college, began to return to school . A lifetime 's accumulated capital , elderly couple topend happy life away . Traveling here and there , or taken away from being good to create / luck for her child . The future of us it let us decide it , do not ask strokes swing . It's that the face in the automobile and its reliance is consistency , I turned away .

Just " give " more then a love turn into a lump of household debt , a ... Department of society .

according ManhTa

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