How do we stop fighting for bullshit?

in #life7 years ago

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There are small scandals in every relationship. This usually happens when things go by water and we wonder what to catch.
But why is this unnecessary strain. Yes, there are times when scandals are useful, but in many cases it is the opposite.
How to reduce "small scandals?

Make full conversations
This will enable you to better understand each other and, accordingly, be clear about what might lead to conflict in one way or another.

Give freedom
Usually small scandals are the result of jealousy. When he / she tells you that he is coming out with friends, you do not have to investigate the situation.

Just believe it
If the other person does something that would upset you, then it is not for you. By setting limits, there is no need to avoid being banned.

Calm down
When you get angry about something small, sit back and think about whether it's worth it or share with the mate. Calm down, this is the best solution.

Remember the good times
Think about all the wonderful moments your partner has donated.

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