Behind most successful instagram models and lifestyle bloggers, there is the boyfriend who helps out with the pictures, making sure that the girl looks her absolute best in every scenario, be it at home or while travelling. Google it, the lengths the boys go to get that perfect shot are hilarious
Your best chance is a professional photographer who is a freelancer like you whose job it would be to take photos of you when you travel together. Steem is perhaps too small a platform for you to find someone who both matches your specs and also wants to go along with what you want. It might be a good idea to publish your photos elsewhere as well.
You really really need to learn how to take a joke.
Your post was written tongue-in-cheek to some degree but I'm not buying that the whole thing was a joke. It is safer to travel with a man and better to share a room with somebody you really want to share it with. Good luck in your search. And I seriously think a professional freelance photographer for a boyfriend would suit your lifestyle best.