Resign to God, but that does not mean we just keep quiet to enjoy his destiny. But surrender means to depend on God, be sure of God, and be kind to God for what he destined.
Indeed, everything that happens in our lives is under God's control, but we have the effort and prayer to ask for the best from Him.
So try in prayer, ask for the best from Him, ask for enough patience and sincerity so that everything that is determined is always easy to go through with ease.
Yes, pray the best, ask for calm so that we are always fine in the plan that He writes.
Because when we are able to submit our hearts to believe in His destiny, then any difficult destiny can still be passed.
Maybe now we are in trouble because our plans are not in line with expectations, but that does not mean that God persecutes us, instead God knows that what we hope is not the best.
So what should we do in facing reality? That is to ask for as much patience as possible to God, so that we also cannot complain about His provisions.
We cannot change God's destiny, but in prayer we can ask God for anything, including endless sincerity.
Therefore, there is no need to humbly ask for something as expected of Allah, if His destiny has been confronted, just ask sincerity, because it is sincerity that will make us okay.
Because it is as bad and at least as pleasing as His destiny, if we remain in patience and sincerity, then everything will be fine.
And remember, don't worry about your plan being messed up because the reality is not in line with expectations, because God's plan must be better than your plan, so just believe there will be good after that.
The point is that no matter how disappointed you are for the destiny that God gives, never forget to ask for the best from Him.
Pray to God so that you are given the ability to deal with it wisely, because when you make the main weapon of prayer to face reality, then you will be fine.
One more thing you must remember, God always hears what you ask, then never give up hope in the best only to Him.