It is not your fault to fall in love, but as it all started with a look and then went on with getting close and later you started having feelings, the feelings you are not sure of, the feeling that you don’t know if she is reciprocating, you fell in love with her, but you are not sure if she does the same to you.
Have you ever been in the situation, whereby you love a girl and you are not sure if she loves you back in the same proportion, she just show some loving attitude that makes you feel she loves you and later on, act in such a way that you start doubting if her love is real or not. This is a very critical love stage, where she makes you feel you are perfect and still give you reasons not to believe in her love, I am very confused when I met a girl by a circumstance. I was meant to be a gentle soul that wants to fall in love, but am not sure if am on the right path, I truly love her, I want her so much that I can’t just leave or trade her for anything or for any reason. I kept on saying to myself that am I meant to fall in love?, but the answer in my head is just to keep loving that she might love me too but in a different dimension.
I get emotional and see myself down whenever I feel a heart break ahead but we are still on a goal, sincerely falling in love is very good but heart breaks are the most deadly part of it. Just like as easy as it is to destroy something and how hard it is to build it. Ones you had a heart break, you tend to believe there is no love not until you meet with the one that loves you more, who is ready to stay with you in love and trust.
Do not let anyone tell you that they have the best love life, you must be able to stand up in your relationship, feed yourself with positive vibes and make sure you stand up to be a man in at least all ramifications, I said at least because no one is completely perfect, we all have our flaws, like anger, side attractions and most importantly trust.
Always give it a trial by taking the risks, even though some risks are not worth taken, you risk that will favor you the most stick with your girl, make her know you love her, try to settle some bills for her but not to the stage which will affect you and later make you invulnerable and make her understand that you are the best for her same as the way she is the best for you. Falls in falling in love is constant not by break-ups but by doubting your love.
It is more risky if you don’t take the risk at all…..
LIVE IT, LOVE IT….
TASTE THE FEELING….
“LOVE TRULY EXIST”
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