I don't post much anymore as the whole steemit thing isn't working as its only those who have enough money to upvote themselves that make any good money. That being said sometimes its good just to release some steam when I fell stressed by writing about it.
I have been with my wife over 3 years now, married for 2 of those years and the whole time her family don't approve and happily make it clear they don't like me. You must think I must have done something very wrong to get this reaction but no they simply say I am controlling as my wife comes to me for advice and help on how to speak to people. She has a personality disorder and bad confidence issues.
She is a lot better now but I was simply just there for her and they din't ask why she was like that, just made a judgement and stuck to that, its been hard as you take it so personally and think you must be bad but I know what the situation is and if this is how they want to act then I just have to accept it and carry on, even if it feels horrible if im being rejected, all that matters that my wife Is happy.
Recently the dad offered and olive branch but in private with my wife they are still saying its my fault and bla bla, leaving me trying to work out how to go about seeing them as, the mum hates my guts but the dad wants to try to at least me mutual. Some parents are so protective they just look for the first thing that shows the partner is bad so they don't have to accept letting there children go.
I'm strong enough to take it but at times it can get me down but I will be strong for my wife who needs me.
Liam