Why does a man feel that he has to protect his partner from the rest of the males and why does the female feel that her husband's emotions should be exclusive to her? How does this instinct affect the formulation of traditional customs and traditions in society? All living things live for reproduction and continuity through generations. This survival goal is the fundamental engine that determines our instincts, our repetition and our actions. We all know that most organisms consist of a couple (female or male), but what is the scientific definition of the female and the male?
Is sex determined by genitalia exclusively or are there other criteria for sex determination?
Definition of female and male:
Both sexes have sexual cells (egg / sperm). These cells are what determines the sex of the object. The most expensive sex cell organism is female and the sexiest cell organism is male. What I mean by the word more expensive and cheaper is biologically, of course.
The egg has very limited amounts of sperm and consumes more food to be produced. If genetically, it does not matter what type of genitals to determine sex, but the biological value of sexual cells.
This definition is very simplistic and differs from what is called sexual identity since sexual identity occurs in the brain and not in the genitals of the organism.
There is also a sexual orientation which differs from sexual identity and is not associated with genital organs.
If we have 3 variables when talking about sex (genitalia, sexual identity, sexual orientation), but within this article I will focus on the genitals and assume that sexual orientation is different and that sexual identity is compatible with the genitals.
An example of a clarification: It is possible to have a male male genitalia but his sexual identity and female sexual orientation is different, we find him attracted to males. Why is it attracted to males and why is not it like me? Because female sexual orientation and sexual orientation is different to the female is attracted to the male and remains genital are mixing the papers to others consider him a person like me.
- I will explain this axis in detail in a separate article.
Genetic investment:
Genetic investment is a very basic idea in interpreting instinct jealousy so I hope to focus on it well. Reproduction is performed by cross-fertilizing the egg with the sperm. What happens after this vaccination is very important because the resources needed by the female body are much greater than the resources needed by the male. In fact, male does not need any resources after the process of vaccination and can repeat the process several times every day with different females because sperm are cheap and available and has no biological burdens after vaccination. The female, after vaccinating her egg, has to invest a great deal of food resources to grow her fetus and to invest a long time in which she can not reproduce.
This means that the female has a greater biological investment (egg) and economically (resources and time) and in terms of alternative opportunity to reproduce. What time a female spends during pregnancy is a time when she can not get pregnant again, unlike a male who can invest on a daily basis without additional burdens.
Inter-neighborhood relations:
Relations between the living system and controlled by the extent of genetic investment needed by the organism to make the reproductive process successful. The male strategy is to fertilize as many females as possible, because this means greater opportunities to spread its genes to future generations. As mentioned previously, for male operation is very profitable, scientific sexuality is an enjoyable process and its results are cheap in terms of resources and ensure the continuity of genes across generations.
For the female, the sexual process is enjoyable but expensive and precious in terms of resources and time. Every sexual process means a huge investment of resources and time. Therefore, the female must choose her partner carefully and select the male who is prepared to stay within the marital nest to help her secure the resources and care for the young. Of course, the strategies of female biology vary depending on the data of pregnancy and the resources needed for successful birth.
For example, fish follow the strategy of spreading as many eggs as possible, so that a percentage of these eggs and even if they are small will grow and become fish while the female elephant has to carry the fetus for more than a year and a half and then give birth and take care of her child for several more months to be able to rely on himself while female human Pregnancy is about 9 months but the delivery before the baby's head grows and becomes greater than passing through the uterus.
Parental care and sexual selection:
The interaction of the male strategy (Lakh and Amshi) and the female strategy (carefully select your partner) results in a new strategy. This strategy says that the male should spend large economic resources of energy and food security so that male investment is in parallel with the investment of the female. This strategy is dependent on the fact that females do not accept sex with males unless they provide economic investment (resources and care for children), making the masculine strategy an unsuccessful strategy in terms of attracting females. Females who accept to reproduce with the male without the payment of resources and care for the children (protection) may find themselves at risk of losing their lives and the life of their fetus compared with females who make sure to take a counter-investment from the male prior to the sexual process and while caring for the children.
Example:
Some female birds do not allow the male to be vaccinated until after the male invests time and effort in building a nest for the family to live in. This investment makes the sexual process expensive for the male, which guarantees the female survival of the male after the vaccination because he will not find other partners willing to engage with sex before building a new nest and this is a hard work and hard work for the male.
Bowerbirds have their nests filled with objects and possessions that males acquire and put in their nests in order to attract females and tempt them to marry them. It is interesting to note that females examine the objects within the nest and based on a careful examination of these acquisitions, the female decides whether to share the male or not.
I assume that you have heard about evolution through natural selection where this is the development at the level of the species as a whole, but there are other engines of evolution on the species to compete internally within the species to get greater opportunities for reproduction and survival. One of these types of competition we call evolution through sexual selection (there are other types of evolution, such as the arms race within the species: those who go faster, escape predation, etc.).
Evolution through sexual selection is a selection of the species with the cheapest gene investment in order to enhance the chances of the owner in the success of reproduction. Why is the owner of the cheapest gene investment (cheaper sex cells)? Because the owner of the largest gene investment is carefully selecting his partner because his investment will be more expensive.
I do not want to dwell on this aspect of sexual selection but I would recommend reading about it to understand the mechanisms of selecting the partner with the largest parental investment for the features of the partner with the smallest parental investment.
In most organisms the female is usually the owner of the largest parental investment and therefore is the one who chooses the specifications that you find indicates that her partner will transmit good genes to her children. For example, the bird's ability to chirp loudly indicates that it has a fairly good health and is free of diseases that may limit the chances of its children to get food and continue through generations.
Female selection of males makes them an engine in the process of development as males who do not have the specifications sought by females can not continue through the generations and thus decrease their numbers in the gene pool.
Of course there are exceptions because of the appearance of features that make the males exceed the selection of the female to them and the selection process becomes the strongest within the group or rape of females and therefore the spread of genes of males ready for rape or violence.
In returning to birds of prey, the females of these birds examine the ability of males to perform the tasks of finding food through a visit to the marital home built by the male. Collectibles within the nest of leaves, stones and other neglected objects that we find in nature indicate the history of the male and his ability to live in caring for the young.
Males steal each other's possessions, especially blue objects (the preferred color of the titans, but the colors may differ between the 20 species of the bird) to overcome the chances of others finding the partner and be a means of displaying power and control over other males.
When the female visits the marital nest, which is built by the male is conducting a genetic test for the male to make the decision either invest egg with him or not. She is not interested in his sperm as much as she is looking for a partner that contributes to raising the young until they reach an age that allows them to survive on their own and the continuity of the gene sequence across generations.
If the male and female have a joint venture. This joint venture is children (50% of the mother and 50% of the father). Male is willing to spend resources and care for female biological investment.
From here we proceed to our position about marital jealousy ....
The pregnancy process for the female is a clear and explicit sign that she will have children for the world and she can determine that the fetus has 100% because the pregnancy takes place inside her body. The male is sure he will not be 100% sure that the fetus is the result of vaccination of sperm and not the result of the sperm of other males. Therefore, in terms of parental investment, the worst scenario for males is to spend their resources on other male children, which works to spread the genes of other males at the expense of their genes. As for the female, the worst case scenario for her and her male vaccine does not stay with her and help her to secure resources and care Young people.
Jealousy in man:
We find that man's jealousy relates to the physical state of the female. Keep all other males away from their partner to ensure that any pregnancy is their own and that the young ones are their children (because he can not be 100% sure he is responsible for the pregnancy). For a female, her jealousy is related to male attention. The female learns that male attention is limited and that this attention is what translates into resources and any element that clings to this attention is an element that poses a danger to its resources and the resources of its children and therefore we find that the jealousy of the female focuses on the emotional aspect of the male. Male passion must be focused on parental investment with the female and not be shared by anyone with this investment. If the male lurks physically, no one is allowed to approach his partner. While the female is excited emotionally by removing any element that can take her partner's attention and thus her resources.
Some examples of nature:
There are many examples in nature that emphasize the development of different strategies between males and females in line with the idea of ??genetic investment. I will give you two examples, but it should be noted that this subject is much more complex and complicated than what I have presented in this article and to further deepen the reader's search within the sexual selection and parental investment in neighborhoods ....
Bruce Effect:
The effect of Bruce in mice is when the rat's mouse secretes a chemical (fermon) that works to abort pregnancy in all females surrounding it. The male takes this step before the reproductive process to make sure that the pregnancy will only be washed. Note that this chemical is not affected by pregnancy if the pregnancy by the male himself.
Sexual stopper:
After completion of the sexual process and the secretion of sperm within the female bees, the male abandons the genital organ and keep it inside the female to close the vagina and prevent other males from female vaccination. The female becomes a queen and uses the same sperm throughout her life. For this reason, bees are identical to each other and each person is prepared to sacrifice himself for the cell and the survival of the queen, which is the source of reproduction in the cell.
It is intriguing to look for breeding strategies in biology, and this theory falls on them and examines them.
To return to man and jealousy ... The embodiment of these instincts and strategies and dropping them on our customs and traditions will provide a logical explanation for all that we see around us from social laws. Male and male mice have birth control strategies and know that children are their children. Human males have similar strategies in principle but are more complex in terms of mechanisms, harder to monitor because we are humans and do not pay attention to these instincts that do spontaneously.
marriage:
It is clear to us now that marriage is a process aimed at regulating the genetic project between male and female. This organization aims to ensure that the male bear his responsibilities regarding resources and child care while the female accepts genetic investment with male to have children. Therefore, we find that the family of the bride often care mainly about the groom's resources and the future of their daughter economically, while the groom focuses on the genes of the bride (beauty) and ethics. (Non-sexual intercourse with other males)
For the male how the male sees the relationship with the female:
As I mentioned earlier he has a strategy that says that your sperm is invested with as many females as possible and that this gene investment is licensed. why not? Five minutes may contribute to the dissemination of genes through the next generation without any investment is negligible. When a male finds a woman ready for sex, his strategy becomes as follows: Genetically invested with this female but because of the ease of genetic investment with her (ease of sexual exercise) do not invest your resources because this female is not guaranteed in terms of exclusive investment. In the case of pregnancy, it is not known that the fetus is fetus because sexual intercourse was easily easy with that female, which means that males are not guaranteed exclusive genetic investment.
That is why males are ready to practice sex at any time but are not ready for parental investment (marriage) unless the female does not find it easy to accept the sexual process.
For the female:
Because of the high value of reproduction, the female should not invest her eggs with males who are willing to spend their resources with any female who is willing to have sex. She has to choose the partner who will invest her resources and take care of her children for years to come. The female must balance male attraction and selection without access to sexual activity until after the male has invested a considerable amount of resources so that the process of withdrawal after sex is an economically lost process (remember the example of birds and nest building). Therefore, in most primitive societies, we find that the evaluation of the man's race is based on the number of females with whom the male can establish a relationship with them, and the fact that the female's advancement is related to her integrity and the extent of her patriarchal investment towards her children.
Legislation and consolidation of male instincts within religious laws:
Allow polygamy for males
imposing a certain dress on the female (veil)
Separation of females from males and prevention of mixing between them.
The dowry before marriage to ensure the investment of male before sexual practice.
- Late: We find that the backside (the value of money paid in the case of divorce) is directly linked to sexual practice in the event of divorce.
Women's jealousy is an instinctive state that drives them to do everything they can to prevent their husbands from loving another woman or to show excessive interest in any subject that might contribute to the waste of their resources. The female is jealous of anything that poses a threat to her husband's resources to be spent on her and her children only.
The man's jealousy is that his wife is far from any physical relationship with other males because that is his best guarantee that all pregnancies are his. Therefore, the virginity of women is a very important and influential factor in marriage in societies that do not respect women's rights.
How do we read this jealousy in male homosexuality?
One of the problems experienced by people who are sexually identical (males in particular) is emotional instability.
Males have a sexual orientation that makes them attracted to the same sex. This is a concept from the point of view of sexual sexuality, but there is a problem that is not mentioned. It is related to the emotional aspect of male homosexuals and I think it should be highlighted more.
A male strategy with a male strategy:
For males, although they are attracted to males, their sexual strategy is the same. This means that we have males who have a strategy that requires sex with as many partners as possible in order to spread the genes in the greatest possible way while the defense strategy that distinguishes the partner from any physical relationships with others. Most homosexuality between males collapses because of the jealousy of sharing partners because male jealousy is focused on keeping the partner away from any other partner to ensure that the children are his children in other situations and in the homosexuality, this instinct is still working but by both parties causing emotional instability for everyone .
This is, of course, other than the social pressures resulting from racial discrimination against them in some closed societies. This is why most of the emotional relationships of homeopathy do not culminate in long-term success. Understanding these sexual strategies and understanding the mechanisms of action associated with homeopathic relationships may help overcome some of the obstacles resulting from jealousy and hence the breakdown of relationships.
In the end I will leave you with this question that was put to me in one of the discussions:
What would you do if you walked along the street and saw your daughter or sister or your cousin going with a man who did not fiance or her husband and put her hand in his hand?
What will happen is as follows:
My brain will receive a visual signal that this girl who is holding a strange hand in my hand is my daughter.
This information will be analyzed and set aside ...
At the same time it will stimulate an instinct that has evolved over 300 million years.
The amygdala section of the amygdala will activate the alarm with a hazard. But what is the danger?
This danger is due to an ancient instinct that guarantees me protection across generations. The idea that biology has a variety of strategies to achieve reproduction and success. Since my daughter is the most expensive gene investor and holds 50% of my genes (egg versus sperm), my daughter's view is held by another male who is doing defensive mechanisms to protect my genetic investments.
Of course my children (my grandchildren) are a genetic investment for me because they have a high proportion of my DNA and therefore I am interested in selecting an appropriate male that guarantees parental care for them. All this instinctive content is activated nervously within the nervous system and the secretion of some hormones testosterone and adrenaline as a result of activation of instinct.
It takes the front of the brain to take over and say to the creeping mind (the lower part of the brain) not you ... I'm the one who controls this circumstance.
The mental trial section invokes previous experiences and all available information about my daughter, especially the female, in general, and about what I know about the instinctive reaction that she might be doing because of my vision of my daughter with another male.
The information evoked says that this instinctive reaction, though evolutionarily justified but socially unacceptable, and since we live in a truly civilized human society, take control, act in telegram and prepare, reflecting the social contract I made with myself to respect my daughter and treat her as human beings She has the same rights and same feelings of love as the male and the same desire to have a relationship with someone she loves.
Of course, all this happens in less than a second ... The Department of Risk Analysis evaluates the young man and his genes in general (length, hair color, skin color, teeth characteristics etc ...).
The next step is to control my actions so that I do not put my daughter in an embarrassing position. I salute in passing and then postpone any desire to recognize the young man until my daughter does so.
Of course, I have taught my daughter many things since her childhood and worked to build her personality independently so that she can make the right decisions on her own and take responsibility for her mistakes. (Assuming that my daughter is not a child)
I hope you have received some benefit from this article. I have briefly mentioned two broad references and I invite you to search more about all the topics mentioned here.
Thieving bowerbirds like bottle tops best
http://www.abc.net.au/science/articles/2006/08/28/1723333.htm
The Crazy courtship of Bowerbirds
http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20141119-the-barmy-courtship-of-bowerbirds
Bowerbird builds a house of illusions to improve his chances of mating
https://www.theguardian.com/science/neurophilosophy/2012/jan/19/1
Bowerbird Bachelor Pads With Best Illusion Snag Mates
http://www.livescience.com/18015-bowerbird-mating-illusion.html
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