As a first son in Africa, you to live upto expectations as pressure will be on you to carry on the family's name and legacy and make life better for your immediate and extended family.
I was given so little and was expected to deliver more. The highest level of education I received from my father was the junior secondary school and my father expected me to become a millionaire based on that. I started menial jobs of different kinds just to make ends meet and fund my education. I had to work from 5pm till 12pm at a Bar after school to pay for my fees in secondary school. Life to me is a matter of chance and I don't try to question it, all I do is let it move me to wherever.
After secondary school, I had a fling and had a baby. I wanted to quit education and end plans of going into the University but I pushed further because I wanted a better life for my daughter. Am in my final year in the University and I hope to graduate an alleviate my family's situation.