man this is where I am right now with my own thinking. I work a good job, house, beautiful family and yet still left wanting. For a good chunk of my life title seemed to be the be all and end all that I was shooting for.
I have the title, and all it really means is that the buck stops with you, more responsibility. Now that I have it all I realise there is much more that is important.
The script was written for us long before we ever auditioned for the part. Who knew that not taking part was also an option.
I think many of us forget that we have options. When people do realize that there are other options I believe it scares them. They freeze up because the other path is "risky" or not as "secure"